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vistal, on Nov 24 2005, 09:04 AM, said:

I'm doing telecommunication engg. in Pakistan. I'm fallen in love with a girl. She's my class fellow. I was and still very uncomfortable talking to her because I always get nervous in front of her. I can't tell u how I managed to tell her abt I love her, but it gave me a real tough time doin' all this and of course! it took a long time.

But now when I've discussed all this with her, and even she also unhided the thing that she's also involved in me, the problem is that we two can't be together due to some reasons in both of our familys' religious background. So when we both know the fact that our Love won't be able to reach its final destination, we've decided to remain as just sincere friends, BUT I can't forget that I loved her too much more than anybody else. She means to me a lot.

I wanna know your opinion what should I do now to erase my memory in which she's got too much space. I feel like I'm destroying my life for what I can't get. Can you sort my problem out...?

you are a man,you are build to make decisions.if you think that you are strong enough to take her with you,fly away with her.and if you think that your family's prestige has more value than this love,you sacrifice and stay with that girl upto any one's marriage.remember ,love's goal is never marriage,but it is the second name of sacrifice.all lovers to whom you know better are the great ones who have a lot of sacrifices,,like anarkali.

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Do i try once more with my wife?How To Get Out Of Love?

I meet her about 4 years ago in Trinidad she had 1 kid at this time we did not start anything. In 2006 she rang me and told me that shes having a next kid for the same dad, I have 5 kids 5 baby moms, cut a long story short.. On the 18 Feb 2007 we got married in Trinidad cool, I sort out her visa to come to the UK.  Now she 24 I'm 44. Sins we marry she have left the house hold 4 times to go to Ive  friends she do come back after a week or so.  she have gone back to Trinidad over 10 times  I pay all the flight cost, saying she miss her kids, She have sleep wid other men about 5 - 10 in the UK and in Trinidad.  I now have a court date for a Divorce 16 March in Trinidad, I understand shes having a hard time in Trinidad for she is not working and she is living with friends and they now want her out, they don't feed her and she don't have no money, I rang her last night and ask her to come home for I'm still in love wid her big time and as I told her many times before I can put all that she have done to me in the pass.  She say she want to come back but she don't love me but she also say she will try but she have said that over 10 times or so and we always end up apart.   I just want her to love me and respect me as a Huz and I do so as she is still my wife. I do love her all so much and want her back in my life.. Now wot I'm I to do all my friends and family say don't go back for shes no good and I'm way to good for her.