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Try to understand and accept the reality dear. If someone insults you, it is only and always with your permission. I see in case of this guy you are just being mistreated with your own consent. Move over, if he is not good to you and does not understand your caring nature- he definitely does not deserve you. It is not about emotional attachment or sort of force which is having you attached with him so deeply, but it is about your own space. You should not let anyone hurt you like that.
Appriciate the fact that you are so worthy that you will find a match just like you soon. This guy seems to be a complete mess, with no respect for your identity. Better you draw lines in your relationship and start to learn living without him.
I hope you will find a good and caring person soon.

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im still in love Guy Problems

hey,

I started going out with this guy sohail whose related to me.Hes my first cousin and I trusted him more than my self.We had lot of issues within our relationship.I did what ever he wanted started dressing up they way he wanted me to. And I loved him. The only issue I had was I wnted to be sure bout my marriage and he wasnt sure.He told me whn the time comes il definitely tel my parents bout us but I want it to be arranged so dnt want to you to tel ny1 yet.Then there was a time whn he broke up with me saying lets give time to each other and see whats important for us.Then I sms him wishin him happy b-day after 15 days from our break up.He sms me back saying I want you back Please forgive me for everythin.He sat on his knees and asked for forgiveness evn thou I slapped him 6 times but I still took him back we were together happy but marriage question came back and I asked him again and his answer was I'm nt sure yet.He said I dnt wana marry yet.and he asked me wat do I want I tld him I dunno I think we should take some time to think and tht day I gt a cut in my finger and he put my finger in his mouth to stop it from bleeding thn suddenly told me we should take some time we should and I told him I dunno I jus dnt wana hurt you he stood up and screamed at me y don't you get it I'm jus using you go live we will always be friens but we are done.I'm still confused did he really meant what he said bout usin me?did he ever love me any second?Or I'm too stupid?I still love him saw him somewhere where he said hi to me recently but I dint reply,should I sms him?shld I do condolence bout his father who passed away?help

-reply by lilyKeywords: guy problem

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so I had a one night stand a year ago never talked to this guy or heard of him for a year until 4 months ago I get to work and he was one of the new hires and it was really weird... Well we started chilling after work and I was getting kicked out of my house so he told me I could move in with him, well we started sleeping but we never really talked about what we really are... We have become so accustomed to talking about other girls and guys but lately its starting to get to us... I mean we only get together when we are drunk and he seems to want to be with other girls but then I feel a hint of jealousy when I go out with my guy friends everyone tells me we should talk about it but I don't want to make things even more awkward... Whats going on and what should I do about it???

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hey, Laniczech, I'm very surprised you told the truth.  The deal is that she just needs to forget about the guy, because he doesn't care about her and her feelings.  Whenever a person drinks and treats a good like that, he is using the alcohol to do what he normally would want to do while he is sober.  If he is a jerk drunk, he is a jerk sober.  Thank you so much for being so honest about yourself!

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Boyfriend problems. Advice please?Guy Problems

Hi guys

I'm new here so I don't really know where to post this and stuff =/

Iv been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we knew each other for about a year before we started dating. At the start of our relationship he was so into me, so caring, nice, fun, he spoke to me almost everyday, always asked what I was doing and how I was..He wanted me so bad.. I wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship back then..I was stuck and didn't know what I wanted to do in life..I wanted to concentrate on getting my life sorted and other important things..He pretty much begged me to be with him. I wanted to, but I was scared.

He has totally changed now..

We don't talk as often as we used to, he always forgets things I tell him, we joke around a lot, but when I try to be serious and have a proper conversation with him he keeps joking around and its hard to talk to him, hes not as caring as before, hes very unreliable and he doesn't understand me at all and he doesn't even try to. He upsets me a lot. If he tells me hes going to call me in two hours he either doesn't call or he calls 3 hours late.. (which is fine, but cant he at least tell me something came up and that he'll call me later on). He's so into his stupid play station and his car. Iv had enough! I think about breaking up with him almost everyday..Its very easy to break up, but how to live after the break up? Ill feel so alone and empty..Ill be in pain everyday..For months.. Ill think about what he's doing and who he's with and if he's thinking of me.. And it sucks when I'm bored cos then ill want to contact him and make it all good..

The other day he told me he was going to call me at 2 o clock..I waited and waited.. 2 o clock came..No call..I waited some more..Then about 2 hours later (still no call) I came onto msn messenger (lol) and he was online and I asked him what he was doing and he said he was playing playstation with his friend. I was so furious!! He didnt even mention calling me..Its like he totally forgot! He does it all the time. Yesterday he told me he was going to call me at 12 to hang out..He didnt call..I came on msn and he came up to me like everything was ok and asked me if I wanted to hang out..I said yes and asked him what he wanted to do and out of nowhere he was like "oh don't worry about it, theres nothing to do anyway" Then why ask me to hang out!?!? Argh.

I don't know..This sounds kind of stupid, but do you guys think its got something to do with sex? Cos I heard that after you have sex .. The guy doesnt really care and try as much as he used to?

I don't know. Please help!

xoxo

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I need help... I am oveously confused. (Not that-that is new)Guy Problems

Ok,

So me and my boy friend have been together for almost a year. We have never really be in any big fight or anything like that, I am confused at the moment however... This is what happened: 

 I have epilepsy and am not allowed to drive and on March 12th I had a doctors apt. ( I am also not allowed to live alone so I now live with my mother again even though I am 22, I have only had epilepsy for about 7 months) after my apt. I was informed that I can start looking for an apartment in town on my own so I was taking the city bus around town seeing what was near the bus stops when I ran into an old friend of mine who said that there happened to be an opening in the apartment complex that he lives in. I was excited and because I had all day to waist he invited me over to show me the lay out of what it would look like and get me all of the information on who to contact about the apartment. Little did I know at the time he had other thoughts in mind. ... We all know what they were... Needles to say he pushed himself on me and I had to file a police report.

 I have not told my boy friend about this yet because I don't know how to bring it up to him. That is confused part number one... 

Number two: 

Yesterday after work I had a job interview and stupid me forgot my resume at home so I txt him and asked him to print off a copy and bring it to work when he picked me up. I gave him 100% access to my email so that he could do it. When he picked me up everything seamed fine other than he looked like he had just woken up and that he might be coming down with a cold =( /sad face. He gave me a hug and kissed me on the cheek so he wouldn't get me sick and took me to my job interview. The interview lasted about an hour, On the way home he was still acting a little stand-off-ish but nothing to much to worry about. 

When we got to my house again he kissed me on the cheek and gave me a hug then I said I love you... When he didn't say it back I asked him why and he got all defencive and accused me of pushing... Then informed me he was upset with me and that we would talk about it later and left. 

Knowing that I was home alone and upset and that my seizures are caused my stress he called my neighbor and asked him to come over and check on me, (not knowing that he was already at my house getting there mail that was wrongly delivered to my house) so I know he still cares. But he has not answered any of my txt's, or calls... What is going on? 

Please help~! 

Oh... And to top it all off I might be Pregnant.  I will find out next week...

-reply by ConfusedPrincess