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[iGuest]

awnser to ask a girl outGirl Troubles

okey if a girl is flirting with you an seems to have an intrest in you,you should start saying stuff like do you have a boyfriend and things like that (the girl will get the message that your intrested in her)and then just saying stuff like oh I like this girl but I'm scared of rejection (when you like her) and the next thing you say is if I asked you out what would you say? (she will know what your up to and think you are cute)

good luck 

-reply by poppy

[DivX]

I still never had a girl, but i have dated them sometimes.
Dates actually suck, because they always come with them friends and it`s so stupid.

[HDuffRules]

DivX, on Jun 9 2009, 10:22 AM, said:

I still never had a girl, but i have dated them sometimes.
Dates actually suck, because they always come with them friends and it`s so stupid.

I'm just a little confused here, but what kind of dates do you go on where she brings a friend? This appears to be less of a date than just normal hanging out. A date is supposed to be just the two of you, and a third wheel completely illegitimizes (is that a word? maybe I made it up) the whole thing.

[k_nitin_r]

Hi!

I wonder why the original posts have bleeps all over it... replacing the offending word with a substitute word would have helped.

@HDuffRules: I agree - a date is two, a double-date is four but, technically speaking, three isn't a date.
BTW, totally off topic but your nickname makes me want to bring it up - do you think Hillary Duff looks a little like Mandy Moore?

Regards,
N

[iGuest]

Same Here....Girl Troubles

Dude, Nathan...The same thing happened to me with a girl, but completely repetitive for about half a year, I finally figured out girls like to mess with you, whether they like you or not. But, if she's doing that drop here, stop the chase trust me. I did after five months, and now I'm the happiest guy in the world, I found the girl I'm gonna marry. And there's no chasing involved. :-D Good luck.

-reply by Everett

[Orion34]

There’s this girl that I am attracted to at my workplace. Every time I talk to her or even say hi to her she has a huge smile on her face which tells me she likes me and her body language says the same. Sometimes when she’s walking through the store shopping she’ll be looking at me. I even caught her looking at me from the corner of my eye a couple times while she was shopping. When I turned to look at her she turned away quickly. Like she was shy to have me know she was looking. Even though we’ve only spoken a couple times I can’t stop thinking about her all the time. I know it’s not right, because we haven’t even gone out once, but I can’t help it. I’m trying to occupy myself with other things to keep her off my mind. Especially since I know it’s not a good idea to get romantically involved with someone at your workplace. And even though I’m not dating her, I sometimes get a little jealous when I see her talking to certain guys. (Which I know is horrible to get jealous!) But I know it’s because she’s a nice person and she gets along with people very easily so I can’t let that overthrow me.

If you guys can help me out or give me some advice on the following issues it would be greatly appreciated:

1) How to get a good conversation going with her to keep things interesting when I see her (which is not often by the way).

2) How to get her off my mind all the time. (Which I know is unhealthy and insane).

3) How to deal with the useless jealousy of seeing her talk to certain guys.