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[sugarnspice954]

having a problem with love? think you're in it but not sure? don't know how to say how you feel? get nervous around them? post or send me a message that answers these questions:

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[iGuest]

Replying to sugarnspice954 Hi I'm sam I'm 13 and I have been dating this guy for almost a month now. Hes really nice, sweet, kind, respectful, and cares for me much. I get to see him almost everyday because we volunteer at the ymca together. We don't go to the same school though. He told me he loved me, but I'm not sure wat to say back. Hes the only guy who can really understand me. I think that I may love him back and we plan to be together for a long time. What should I do?

-reply by samantha

[Sakey]

Well if you think you might love him back then stay with him, make sure he is for real, and just go from there pretty simply, then if he askes you to be his boyfriend and your not ready for it, say im not sure yet, but then talk to him the next day and maybey do something together, think about it then, if your still not sure after a while, just tell him strait.

[Carson]

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then if he askes you to be his boyfriend and your not ready for it, say im not sure yet

I think he is already her boyfriend. She said she is dating him.

[Sakey]

Then forget that bit, just think about that as the next step, whatever you would want to make it (its different in some countries).

[iGuest]

family problems in love..!..
Love Problems?

Haiii..!
I loved a gal.. She also love me a lot. and when our familys came to kw abt dis dey made our relation split. V still love each other and v are tryin to get married but only with d permision of our family members. Der is problem of cast,religion,age,money or any other things dey opposes our relation because v loved each other. V don't want to make our parents sad. But v cant live with out each other.. Can some 1 suggust any solution to soo dat our parents approve our relation..! v are in great trouble plss help ussssss...

-reply by shiras

[iGuest]

Love Problems?
Love Problems?

Hi, Ok here go's, I have 2 girls in my life, One that is divorced with 2 kids which I don't mind at all but she lives with her ex to take care of her 2 kids, we see eachother 3-4 times a week, Love her very much and she is the girl a always dreamed of but I can't accept the ex husband thing. The other girl is sweet, kind but I don't love her like the first one. Advise please??




-reply by Johnny76

[Okara KAmi]

Addressing: Johnny76

If you don't love the second one as much as the first one, then you have your answer.
There seems to be no problem with the fact that she lives with her ex as long as it is to take care of her child.

But truthfully from the stand point of a less perfect world:
Wait.

Wait until you are sure that you don't love the second as only a friend.
Make sure you are ready to date someone who has kids and lives with her ex.
Make sure you are ready to give one up for the other if the time comes.

If it seems complicated now, I warn you it may very well get messier in the future if you make up your mind too soon.

[iGuest]

How do I convince the person I love..
Love Problems?

Hi, I need your advice with a problem of mine..As far as my problem goes, I like this guy for the past 2 yrs , we interacted with each other personally for a few months initially at workplace and have been interacting on the net aftr he left the job. He comes across as a very soft-spoken, nice natured and a reserved guy. We have common interests and are compatible. He treats me as a very good friend. But the problem is we have met just twice personally also not spoken on the phone extensively in these 2 yrs after he left the job. I have also told him about my liking for him, but he responded to me saying that things won't work between us as we belong to different communities. Even if he says this I have sensed from his behaviour that he also likes me but not very sure about it. He also got engaged in between due to which I decided to move ahead in life. But recently I came to know from him again that his engagement got cancelled due to some reasons, I don't know what to do now, I really like this guy and would like to spend my entire life with him. Please advise me, is this the right time to speak again to him about my feelings for him?

Thanks

-question by saloni

[iGuest]

love problemLove Problems?

I am male,26 love a girl. She also loves me. But the thing is she is adopted child and so grateful to her parents. They fixed her marriage up with someone's else. They know that she does not want to marry that boy. She loves me so much, but she is not able to say a "no" to them. In this way, I know that she is destroying her own life. Please show me the way to convnce her. Please, I am feeling helpless...

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Pintu Hazra