I'm in high school, and I can't stop thinking about my Boyfriend.



It's starting to be a BIG problem, because I keep doing things wrong and I'm one of the smartest students in the whole grade.



I'm getting all my maths, spelling wrong my writing is REALLY messy I'm even always tripping over.


I feel liking jumping off a cliff so I die and don't get teased of being dum.



Pleeeeeeease help me!

I am a 18 years old girl.I am in a relationship from past 1 year.I am fallen madly in love with him.
But my problem is that this guy was having a girlfriend before,who was one of my close friends.But he got attracted towards me and proposed me.At that time,I wasn't knowing that he is my friend's boyfriend and I was also liking him.So,I accepted his proposal.But after some days I found out that he has not broken up with that girl and still talk to her romantically.When i asked him about this,he said that that is not true and he just loves me.I believe him,but still i have some doubts.What should I do?Another problem is that he also wants to have sex with me,but i don't want it before marriage.We two do phone sex but he wants to do in real life.What should I do???

I know I'm sort of late, but I want an opinion from an "outsider".
I moved to a new school 3 months ago, and I had a small crush on a guy. Except he's sort of a playerrr :/ It started feeling like like more than just a crush, and then just 2 weeks ago he found out that I liked him. We just had Thanksgiving break the day after, but the first day after the break, my friend asked my crush if he liked me, and he said he did. So after school (this was last Monday), he asked me out.. (Its also important that you know, we were not exactly close at all.. we kind of barely talked.. but I dont know, ireallysuperlikedthisguy<3) And the following day, Tuesday, was probably the happiest day of my life.. he hugged me a lot:) But then halfway through school on Wednesday... he broke up with me because it was a bit weird, but he said he still wanted to be friends. I cried that next class. And then after that, I saw him, and I kind of brushed him off, which I probably shouldn't have done, because now it's back to the way things were before, not really talking I still really like this guy, but everyone thinks it's stupid of me, and I know it is... But I can't forget how happy I was when he hugged me :/

I need advice about my relationship. Maybe my post is long, but i will try to write less text i can, because have many things. So, this is my story. I am in a relationship with 6 years older boy than me from other country. This relationship is long 3 years.After 2 years and half we have meet each other in live for first time, because of some problems from mine and his side (because of educations and competition and his work). He had applay a visa for my country after 2 years and half of our relationship. All the documents from his and mine side were correct and everything ok, but his visa was rejected. After 10 days waiting and changing hotels, he was rejected (even he was in other country for the visa, because in his country didnt have embassy). When the visa was rejected, he was thinking that i was cheating and lieing at him. Some day after the rejecting his visa, i went in the country where he was waiting for me with my father and we were together 5 days. We applayed together again and the same day rejected. But after more discusions, we decide to try later again, but on other way. This days with him were the most beautifull days in my life (I would not talk about the detalis how we spend our time with him), had a chemistry between me and him, we see each other and love a lot. We didnt have freedom a lot because of my father, but we had a time to spend alone and to share and tell many things to each other in his room. After this 5 days, we went back to our countries. For meet each other, he was risking to lose one of his jobs, but after few days he got back the second job too and he continued with his work. Everything was ok between us 2 months after coming back in our countries. Than, sorpricely, he told me that he found other girl from USA (he was lieing that, that was in anger) and told that he wants to get marry her, that is better than me, and can get easily visa for USA and from my country like he was so insulted and he was feeling like some criminal, even we didnt have enough freedom because of my father and we were going in cheeper restaurants and that our standard of leaving is so low. Other people, about who he didnt want to tell me, but told me they know me well me and my family and told him many bad things about me. After 2 days again we talk and said to each other bad words. 2 weeks we were fighting sometimes, i was begging him to come back to me, but he was angry because of the bad words. I expplain to him that i didnt think that, and i swear, i never think this about him. Just because he told me bad words, i reply him about his look, like he done. But i know his complex, so that i hit him on his complex about his skin color. I told him many time to stop with his complex and his skin is great, and i really think this. After 2 weeks he came back to me and told me that everything was in anger, and had many problems and he wanted to fix and too much work, because he has 2 jobs, so he wanted me to concentrate on my studying and to not have problems. But he couldnt understand that he never disturb me and that he is not a problem and that only with him i feel alive that he is my happiness my life.We r doing our relationship, sometimes with fighting from his side. He thinks that i control him, that im 24 hours sitting on internet and that didnt have what other to do. But its not like this. Some day ago, we talk nicely and me to do about his visa and that we will do everything to be with each other. After 4 days, he is so diferent than this. He ask me that i lie at him, that i ask him to come in the other country for nothing. Before many time i explain him that i didnt lie and cheat him, like told me the man from consulate, like this same i told to my boyfriend. Now, he doesnt belive on me and on my love. That is hurting me a lot. He even ask me we can talk normaly like friends, like chating friends, and if i didnt do anything about the visa till 3-4 months, he will get marry with other girl. He ask me he wants to live the life, he need a partner. I told him many time when we see each other that will get marry with him. But he thinks already that im making drama with him. How to prove. how to show that my love for him was and will be always real and that i cant love anyone other than him?

hello
i am candi and 33 years old and i have been dating a guy off and on. he is still involved in this highschool sweetheart. she treats him like dirt and breaks his heart then he comes crying to me. i am always there for him he is my best friend but i hate to see him in pain. i dont know what to do i feel like im the second choice. he says that hes torn between the both of us. he tells me im not but he may tell her the same thing. what to do im lost and dont know what to do....

hi...i m prashansa and i like a guy madly i luv him very much and we had a relationship also for 2 months but now he broke up wid me but i did not want to lose him i message him, call him but he never replies and he patched up wid her ex-girlfriend but i want him back in my life please suggest me something what to do but i cant live widout him and also he is angry wid me pls help me pls.........

Hi I'm ayee and I'm 19. I've been dating this guy for 16months. I met him at summer class. He's really funny, kind and I know he loves me. Before, i was so happy being around him with such positive and loving atmosphere. After a year, everything changed. He brags about money that he's spending when I'm around, he's very moody and we fight almost everyday about simple stuff. Simple stuff, I mean even the choice of food we'll eat We used to stay at the same apartment for 4months and I think he was all tired up being with me all the time. Now he doesn't want to kiss, hug or even hold my hands. I asked him if he still loves me or wants to stay with our relationship and he said yes. He loves me and doesn't want to breakup. He made up for the mistakes he's done but after a week, it was all the same again. Last night, we had a fight about him being all moody and stuff and he just left me on his apartment alone while he and his friends had fun out. I packed my things and broke up with him. When I walked away, he didn't even follow me. NO text or call received. I still love him so much and miss him What I want to ask you is did I made the right choice leaving him or can I give myself another chance to stay with him and ask him back? Wah. What should I do? Thank you. God bless.

hey
I fell in love me with a person who is my teacher, I'm in high school and he is around 10 years older than me, he first told me he loves me. after less than a year he told me he was forced to engaging a girl in his family again but he will not let it reach marriage bc he loves me. i gave him another chance but not really sure if i did the right thing...i tried letting him go but i really love him

Hi,
I am male 27, I love a girl at my past company. Initially we were very good friends. we used to share our feelings. we used to chat late night daily.
we used to sit together during commutation to office. so you can say we used to spend almost day together.
then i started liking her, i told he. her ae is 23. she told that she is not ready for marriage now. she is too young to decide for marriage. but we continued as same as friend.
whenever i used to push her again she used to ignore me for few day but used to come back within few days.
this year 2012, we went for a trip for 3 days. there we became close. i felt her neck. when we came back she accepted my proposal.
I left comany and after that shw was missing me so much.. crying.. she ven started to come office without ornaments and all.. saying who is there to see me..
she was like i already feel that i am your wife.
in between we did phone sex on sms 2-3 times. last time was before valentine night 14 feb 2012.
we knew that there could be problem with famliy side.
we kept our relation to ourself. She spoke to her sister and cousin brother about me.. She told me that they are not open for intercast marriage.
now the problem comes..
on valentine , i sent her flowers to her office. She got angry to saying that people in my ofice were asking me who sent flowers. It was uncomfertable for her.
She came home and told parent k someone sent me flowers. parenst told that we will get you married soon. we dont like love and all.
next day i said sorry, for that she replied that she is not in position to think and very disturbed.
She needed to move to new team. she said "I have new task coming up in office and i cant focus because of so much going around".
She ignore me afterwards and became rude to me. after 3 days i asked why? she told that she is feeling guilty for phone sex.
i should do this only after marriage.
after that she started to behave like friend. and last week, for very small fight, she made point that i have made my decision. you move on.
i tried to speak but She said.. i dont love you infact i hate you for loving me so much. i can only think of marriage situation.
She is ignoring me and not speaking to me.
I know that its mostly beacuse of caste problem.i am independent and earns very good.
i told her to be calm..let me speak to your parents or sister atleast. but she is not ready.
during last 3 weeks after valentine , I lost every thing.
I miss her so much. i feel lonely. i am very sad. i love her so much.
what should i do?

HI i am khadija ... 16 year old grl .. my boyfriend dont tawks to me much .. bt he loves me .. he hav no othr gf im tenced bt he loves his frnds much he stay wid thm much.. he dont hv time for me .. wat shud i do crying like hell.. cant even leave him