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Losing Interest
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Hey folks
Seems like a lot of us are in the same boat here eh! I have just been through the same thing with my partner of 18 months.
If there are some girls on here then I would really like your input on this
I think my partner is in the situation where the fire has turned to embers as shes puts it. I don't know whether she is expecting for everything to be so passionate again. She took time out to herself over a week ago and went and stayed at her friends house then came back to me on the saturday and said she still loved me. I have spoken to her friends to understand what some of the problems are an think I know have an understanding. We are due to really talk this weekend and I have booked some time in with a counsellor next week so we are going to learn how to communicate better as I think a lot of these issues have come about cos she hasnt really been talking to me and let it build up. I am hoping that the counsellor will give us the ability to really get things in the open and hoping that once she does those things that she feels some release within herself and some happiness when she looks at me again as I can feel her eyes dying already after only bein back three or four days. Am I realistic to think that she will feel those things after talking?
Sorry to hijack the post, but it seems we are all on the same tact here. But I definetely found some of the things on her useful, so keep your fingers crossed for me this weekend !
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Posted 16 February 2009 - 03:05 PM
so where is he?Losing Interest
I don't know,its just the same issues about you guys and me,were on our1 year now,many things happend before,and even walls comes up,it willAlways tear down,but now its diffrent,I don't know,after last sem,he gotFailing grades and start to heat things up with his studies,I cantBlame him,he needs to study,but each and every month comes,I'm feelingSo far away from him,now we see each other only 2 times a week,compareBefore,I remember that he used to call me or used to talk to me on thePhone every night,until we became sleepy,but now,he'll just waste hisFree time on chatting with friends and playing computer games,I don'tKnow if he found another girl to fullfill his void,but I don't seem toKnow what he feels,everyday I see him as a prince coming up to myBalcony and wait for me,but I guess after reading so much of this,I'mWaking for the reality,I really should look in to the mirror and seeMyself that,I'm falling for thorns,nearly dying,half of my life I spentFor this guy,it sucks for me to lose him,but I have to face the truthThat when the butterfly needs to fly,I guess I need to say goodbye..
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Posted 05 October 2011 - 04:05 PM
Skamikazi, on 11 April 2006 - 09:08 PM, said:
So my girl friend and I have been dating for about a year now, and for the longest time she was my world. I set aside so much of my life for her, wether it was the fact that her religion is considered by the members of my religion to be a plague to ours. I've also had to deal with many issues with her parents and so forth, such as them taking her cell phone away for a month, not allowing her on the internet, and such so we basically couldn't see each other for that entire month. Infact, that was really recent, it ended on Sunday.
But after getting to be able to talk to each other again, which might I add has been nearly endless until the times set by her parents. But the more and more I talk to her, I begain to feel less attracted to her. Mind you, I haven't actually been with her that entire month except for maybe 2 or 3 times, but even then it was only visiting her at work.
And I don't know why I feel less attracted to her. I don't ever want to lose her, she was the best thing that ever happened to me, and probably the most beautiful girl I've ever fallen in love with, who feels the same way, and yet, slower and slower I'm losing interest with her. Our phone calls, as long as they are, are no where's nears as thoughtful or fun as they were before the month, and our internet conversations are suffering as well.
So, I ask of you all to maybe give me suggestions on things to do to spice things up, I do get to see her on Thursday ( her birthday) and that saturday ( Birthday Party), but I just don't want to go and not feel the way I used to about her.
Thanks for listening,
Steve
But after getting to be able to talk to each other again, which might I add has been nearly endless until the times set by her parents. But the more and more I talk to her, I begain to feel less attracted to her. Mind you, I haven't actually been with her that entire month except for maybe 2 or 3 times, but even then it was only visiting her at work.
And I don't know why I feel less attracted to her. I don't ever want to lose her, she was the best thing that ever happened to me, and probably the most beautiful girl I've ever fallen in love with, who feels the same way, and yet, slower and slower I'm losing interest with her. Our phone calls, as long as they are, are no where's nears as thoughtful or fun as they were before the month, and our internet conversations are suffering as well.
So, I ask of you all to maybe give me suggestions on things to do to spice things up, I do get to see her on Thursday ( her birthday) and that saturday ( Birthday Party), but I just don't want to go and not feel the way I used to about her.
Thanks for listening,
Steve
I feel you too man.You can say that I had the same problem as you.Me and my gf would talk over the phone till late nights and text each other like nobody's business but recently my gf's phone was confiscated,she is not allowed to use the internet(except on fridays when she goes to her friend's house and weekends too) and she is grounded from youth fellowship(both of us are christians). The only time I get to see her is on Sundays but even though we had that opportunity to catch up on each other, her parents would just give us that stare that really put the pressure on me btw her dad is a religious man and he is just trying to protect her.This situation has been going for almost 3 months and I starting to lose my patience and also my interest in her. I'm kind of struggling too since there are a lot of girls in my college but I always avoid talking to them.I'm giving my best hang in and I started to feel lonely.I really miss her.I miss her a lot.
This is just my 2 cents and please forgive me if you find it annoying.
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