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harad, on Apr 16 2006, 03:42 PM, said:

Damn and you are happy with such a unnatural life? Whole live comes from sexuality, every thing (yeah, i believe in freudism). If you live in sexual abstynency you almost aren't living. Are you even allowed to think about women?

Well, I wouldn't say that. In Islam there is a concept about "the other life is eternal" and this one we live in is something like a prove and not eternal. I think that life depending all entirely on sexual behavioral is not mentally good and is related to bad health and disease. But this does not mean muslims can't make sex. Sure they can have sex(except anal isn't allowed) and can have to 4 wives( and this is pretty morally better than having a wife and several other relationships at the same time).

loyal said:

For example if a child wants to eat a biscuit which only you know is poisoned, and you can only stop the child from eating, then that is what you will do. The same is with God. God knows the biscuit can look delicious and tasty but in truth would kill me. I try to follow Islam. Not looking at girls for example was hard at the beginning, but gradually the way i thought about this whole issue made it alot easier.

Pretty good example, it explains everything.

Striker9 said:

LOL! good question, but no don't worry, Muslim men choose their own wives after they love them and get to know them very well (at least in my country that's how things go ) but there are some countries that have extremely strict rules and dress codes and traditions (like Saudi Arabia and most of the Gulf countries) well, in these countries I don't know how people get married but I don't think it happens normally and I would say that happens because over there people do not understand Islam quiet well, I honestly think they are somehow radical and extreme and they really need to look at Islam from a totally different perspective!

I believe that you don't understand Islam very well, you cannot say that a country like Saudi Arabia, which is the onliest place in the planet that partially uses Sheriat( the Islam law) has strict rules. It is not about rules that countries make dude, you're totally wrong. Its all about what Qur'an and Profet Muhammed says. It is not like how you make in your country or in others. So I would like to say that Sunni follow the right path. All others are deviations.

[nirvaman]

Hey muslim , you have choosen to be muslim , so you need to do what Islam want you to do !
And being a muslim , you certainly know what the prophet Mohamed (pbuh) said about marriage ?

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Marriage is my tradition who so ever keeps away there from is not from amongst me

Marriage acts as an outlet for sexual needs and regulate it so one does not become a slave to his/ her desires.
So , if you think that islam is not giving you a chance with your sexual needs , then you need to ask the Catholic priests and nuns , where in Islam there is not a similar thing , the prophet also said

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there is no celibacy in Islam.

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So bro , that's what Islam and God want you to do, if you can do it then you will have a lot of "hassanat" , if you don't then you will collect a lot of "sayiat" , and that's life !