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[Bad-Boy]

Hye , here i am writing about an UNKNOWN relation-ship , I don't know whats its name ? is it LOVE or frinedship.....?
Infact , for the last 2 years i am talking to a girl ... She is very sweet,nice,caring and a very ..........
infact , now i cant feel good , when she is away from me....Mean the day we never talk to each other it is very difficult for me to spend that day , but when its a time to talk ' i never knows what to speak , justu sed listen her ... i know that is not FRIENDSHIP , and NOR it is LOVE.... MIGHT It be a realtion between FRIENDSHIP and LOVE..but what is the name of that RELATIONSHIP....
please tell me , what shuold i do , because i never felt EASE with out her........:'(

Edited by Bad-Boy, 29 April 2006 - 07:39 AM.

[xaetos]

Yeah, its called a crush.

If she's single and you think you feel something more than friendship towards her, then ask her to go to a movie with you or something, or take her out to dinner.. 'specially if you think she might feel the same way about you. The worst thing is when you never work up the courage to tell someone how you feel and then you just..never know. Do yourself a favour and don't do that :\ Tell her..

I'm rambling a bit, so I'll stop. Pink font is unnecessary '

[agentblade]

Start by being friends, then slowly sort out your feelings for her.. xaetos is most probably right, it's a crush.. crushes come and go. Important not to let the feelings go over your head... Let your head lead not ur heart..

[AnGeL KiSS]

Bad-Boy, on Apr 25 2006, 11:04 AM, said:

Hye , here i am writing about an UNKNOWN relation-ship , I don't know whats its name ? is it LOVE or frinedship.....?
Infact , for the last 2 years i am talking to a girl ... She is very sweet,nice,caring and a very ..........
infact , now i cant feel good , when she is away from me....Mean the day we never talk to each other it is very difficult for me to spend that day , but when its a time to talk ' i never knows what to speak , justu sed listen her ... i know that is not FRIENDSHIP , and NOR it is LOVE.... MIGHT It be a realtion between FRIENDSHIP and LOVE..but what is the name of that RELATIONSHIP....
please tell me , what shuold i do , because i never felt EASE with out her........:'(

i think you should talk to her more often, get her to like you and get to know her more and if things dont get along, it was meant to be...

[tuddy]

xaetos, on Apr 26 2006, 05:27 AM, said:

Yeah, its called a crush.

If she's single and you think you feel something more than friendship towards her, then ask her to go to a movie with you or something, or take her out to dinner.. 'specially if you think she might feel the same way about you. The worst thing is when you never work up the courage to tell someone how you feel and then you just..never know. Do yourself a favour and don't do that :\ Tell her..

I'm rambling a bit, so I'll stop. Pink font is unnecessary '

I have to agree with xeatos on this one, but don't be fooled also, she may precieve it as a friendship and therefore that is why she is able to talk to you. The only way around this is to start talking to her and and then before it becomes a deep friendship ask her out after going to movies, dinners as xeatos said.

But the pink font is her right if its available.

[good-baby]

Oh dear . I can really understand your feelings , but i am very surprised to see that why you hav'nt tell her your entire feelings . may by doing so your problem solved. why do'nt you tell her you have some speciall sort of feelings with her. And i think so you are really in love with her , and you are afraid of her , that she will leave you but if you don't share your feelings with her you may get panic more day by day.
so my advice for you is that just say her that you LOVE her...
hope that will helped you alot.And just be confident don't get be affraid or shy.
Best of luck.
Hope to hear some good news by you.

[Bad-Boy]

Thanx to all buddies , for helping me on my HIDDEN LOVE.
infact problem is that i am lillte shy , but i will gather up courage and try to let her understand for what i have for her in my Heart.
please pray for me..
thank you all .

[Bad-Boy]

Hi buddies . I did it , but now I am very upset by thinking that WHAT WILL HAPPEN . Buddies as you suggest me to gatherup courage and try to clear her what I had for her my my little sweet heart . I did the same thing .
I asked her to have a dinner with me , she agreed . so we had dinner and after dinner I requested her to go in park with me. And she never refused so we went to park . We were talking about nice weather , then suddenly I asked her that “ Can I say u some thing “ she was looking arround and asked me to carry on . then I bent on my knees , held her hand and kiss it , then she very surprisedly look into my eyes . I said “ I really Love You “ . She said nothing . But I was still lokking into her blue eyes . they were shining . Then she said nothing and walked away , But after walking about 10 to 15 feets she looked back at me , me was still on my knees , she smiled and walk away .
And still that day , she swithced off her mobile , she never came online , I went to her house she never want to meet me and saying that WAIT.... ……So please tell me What will happen now . I am very confused …..Now What will happened , I am afraid not to lose her

Edited by Bad-Boy, 29 April 2006 - 05:59 PM.

[AnGeL KiSS]

Bad-Boy, on Apr 29 2006, 02:36 PM, said:

Hi buddies . I did it , but now I am very upset by thinking that WHAT WILL HAPPEN . Buddies as you suggest me to gatherup courage and try to clear her what I had for her my my little sweet heart . I did the same thing .
I asked her to have a dinner with me , she agreed . so we had dinner and after dinner I requested her to go in park with me. And she never refused so we went to park . We were talking about nice weather , then suddenly I asked her that “ Can I say u some thing “ she was looking arround and asked me to carry on . then I bent on my knees , held her hand and kiss it , then she very surprisedly look into my eyes . I said “ I really Love You “ . She said nothing . But I was still lokking into her blue eyes . they were shining . Then she said nothing and walked away , But after walking about 10 to 15 feets she looked back at me , me was still on my knees , she smiled and walk away .
And still that day , she swithced off her mobile , she never came online ……So please tell me What will happen now . I am very confused …..Now What will happened , I am afraid not to lose her

aww, i hope you the best luck with her!
thats soo sad! go to her house and talk to her about it..

[agentblade]

Bad-Boy, on Apr 29 2006, 10:36 PM, said:

Hi buddies . I did it , but now I am very upset by thinking that WHAT WILL HAPPEN . Buddies as you suggest me to gatherup courage and try to clear her what I had for her my my little sweet heart . I did the same thing .
I asked her to have a dinner with me , she agreed . so we had dinner and after dinner I requested her to go in park with me. And she never refused so we went to park . We were talking about nice weather , then suddenly I asked her that “ Can I say u some thing “ she was looking arround and asked me to carry on . then I bent on my knees , held her hand and kiss it , then she very surprisedly look into my eyes . I said “ I really Love You “ . She said nothing . But I was still lokking into her blue eyes . they were shining . Then she said nothing and walked away , But after walking about 10 to 15 feets she looked back at me , me was still on my knees , she smiled and walk away .
And still that day , she swithced off her mobile , she never came online , I went to her house she never want to meet me and saying that WAIT.... ……So please tell me What will happen now . I am very confused …..Now What will happened , I am afraid not to lose her

It must have been hard on you. To gather up your courage to tell her how you feel only for her to ignore you. Well honestly there's nothing you can do about it except wait. I guess maybe you rushed into things, making her feel a little uneasy about the whole thing. Or either that she's trying to sort out her feelings for you, thus the need to stay away for a while.

I know the anxiety you must be feeling now, you really want her by your side. But you need to be patient and give her time to decide for herself. You must be gracious enough to accept that she may not like you. No point forcing her to love you, because then her love will not be genuine.

If things don't work out, I really do hope you two will remain as friends. Kinda sad to see a friendship broken up because of something like this.

On your side, don't worry about looking for girlfriends, a suitable one will come along one day.

Hope it helps you some whats