It is rather impossible to be romantically in love with two people at the same time because if you love one of them then you are being disloyal to the other and if you love the other then you are being disloyal to the first and if you love them both then it is probably just an infatuation or a crush and you do not really love them both enough to be able to commit to him or her exclusively and therefore feel the need to be around both of them. At some time or the other you will have to choose between the two people. When you try to decide over which one to stay with then you should consider which one would reciprocate your love and affection for them.
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#103 Guest_Sadie_*
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Posted 10 December 2011 - 12:29 AM
Well im in the same position. My bf and i have been togethr off an on for a yr, bt when we first startd talkin i got reconnected with on of me guy friends well we talked 24/7 and he came down on one of mine and my bfs breakups and we hungout and went to supper he did everything for me he did more for me thn my own bf did well i fell deeply in love with him bt he got messed bck up with his x and ended up going back to jail. So now im with my bf for a yr and in love with him bc we been togethr so long, bt i want to spend the rest my life with the other guy me and him are even talkin about buyin land and my current bf knows and dont care! What do i do??
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Posted 03 March 2012 - 09:25 AM
ok i no this is someones question but i have the same problem im in love with 2 diff girls and the bad thing is girl num 1 is my older sisters x gf and my whole family haters her but she has always been there for me she knows who i really am but when she moved away i didnt talk to her for 6 months thin one day she hit me up on facebook and she has gotten off drugs for me she is trying to save money to move down here so she can see me but my gf abby is one of the most amazing people i no and shes like a fresh start with the family CAN ANYONE PLEASE HELP ME??
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Posted 11 March 2012 - 02:10 PM
Cody, on 09 May 2006 - 05:24 AM, said:
What do yuo do when your stuck between two people?.. two people you love all to much and know it would brake your heart to see them cry and it would brake their heart to see you with any one but them.. im lost and help less at this moment.. Pleas help me...
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Posted 27 April 2012 - 03:43 AM
I too have the same issue you have. When I was in highschool, I was with a girl (we dated for 4 years) but I met this other girl (to keep names at a minimum il say "S") well, me and "S" fell for eachother soon after, but i couldnot hurt the girl i was with so i decided to supress my feelings for "S" and she did the same, she then forced herself to move on and ended up with someone and had a kid, she told me she wished it was my child.... she moved away meanwhile me and my ex broke up and i strated a long distance relationship with a girl (we will call her "A", I flew out to see "A" nemourous times and she was comming to see me in a matter of months, then "S" came back around the time she had her little boy. I visited her in the hospital and our feelings for one another came back rearing strong. I noticed they were coming back so i did what i did best and suppresed them once again and left here be....then 6 months later she wanted me to come visit her and her baby boy. I came over and sure as sunrise she made it clear she still had fealings for me, I left that night and came back the next. that night she kissed me but i felt tarable, because i love her so much but im with "A" and "A" was planning on moving in with me in a few more months.... I dont want to hurt "A" but i cant keep suppressing my fealings for "S" eather.........I dont know what to do, if anybody has answers please post them
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Posted 15 May 2012 - 12:47 AM
Hey im in the same situation as you at the moment ...
"If you love two people stay with the second because if you would have really loved the first you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second"
Best advice i could give you havent had the courage to do it myself because theres alot of complications !
Good luck !
"If you love two people stay with the second because if you would have really loved the first you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second"
Best advice i could give you havent had the courage to do it myself because theres alot of complications !
Good luck !
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