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[seez]

Those are probably all true - did you add that all guys like to do is ..........................?

[FLaKes]

I agree with Justin S. I couldnt even read past 30....

[9block]

If you relate these to a general stereotype.. alot of these remain completely wrong and dumbfounded me... like Zabb said...

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1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

Lets go over the first twenty... the ones out of the first twenty that were wrong anyways..
1. Guys like good looking girls. period.
3. If a guy likes you for a minute, then forgets you. I really wonder what you did that second minute to make him forget you.
4. No, when a guy says he doesn't understand you... its because your running mixed signals.
5. If a guy manages to blurt this out to avoid stammering... id suggest he stammers some.
6. trust me, hes thinking of the hottest girl he met or seen that day.
7. If a guy really likes you, you dont have any bad characteristics.
9. Maybe the desperate ones.
12. Guys tell you lies and make you think your hearing what they can't tell you sober. Were smarter than you think.
16. guys usually try hard to make the girls that dumped them regret it. Eg, Going out with someone hotter.
17. If you touch a guys heart, double check to make sure hes a guy.
19. Guys go crazy when you touch something else.
20. That guy, needs to game up.

Those are a couple inconsistencies and the truth about each. Curtosy of myself.

Edited by 9block, 18 July 2007 - 05:08 AM.

[etycto]

i've read through this whole list and about 70% of it is really true and many just stereotypes. some of them stood out realy clearly

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Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

that's too true

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Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

that is true but the guys,for most, will always like the girl with the mini skirt but not for too long

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Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

i dont think so girls always think that they can make a guy do waterver they want but thats not a real relation ship.this may happen between a wife and a husband but between a boyfriend and girlfriend not that likely

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When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

no girls dont ever think like that because that's probably never true forcing some one to express how they feel,when they dont want to, is bad and the feeling will come out negatively

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Guys don't really have final decisions.

yah yah we do, "i dont like you" does mean "i dont like."

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Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

this is true, for me at least, and this line "but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong." makes no sence to me. but while guys dont believe in love at first site they do believe in lust at first site

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When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

that is very very true

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Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

that's true the guy friends are never realy helpfull and its also the same way around for girls too.

but this list will never be 100% true for every guy note even 50%

Edited by etycto, 19 July 2007 - 04:31 PM.

[cangor]

well, let's see.

1. true sometimes. depends on the guy.
2. heck no. Well, some do, but a lot don't.
3. depends on the guy.
4. uh... no. not true. well, then again, maybe depending on the guy, but if I said that it'd mean something like "stop beating around the bush" or "I can't believe you're acting like that."
if that makes any sense at all.
5. or, "hey, how are you?"
6. yeah, but I still really think guys who flirt around all day are... uh... not worth being with.
7. true. but he doesn't just disregard them, he likes them
8. yes.
9. not... anything....
10. I dunno, I don't hang out with girls who have been like, 50 boyfriends, because I wouldn't want to be #51 and I don't like girls who are always clingy to guys either
11. yeah, why not?
12. uh, guys, don't drink. well, water, but not booze.
13. and we don't admit it.
14. uh...
15. meaning...? I think that makes sense.
16. I never accept defeat.
17. ...
18. that depends what you're thinking, ladies.
19. guys just go crazy when girls touch them period.
20. yeah, sometimes.
21. sometimes...
22. yes. well, depends what.
23. well, guys know what the message is but they'd rather play dumb. or else, yeah, some just don't get it.
24. hate.... I dunno about hate, I don't really.
25. some do, some don't.
26. absolutely.
27. uh, when a girl likes me and I don't like them I just feel awkward a while and tell them, "let's just be friends" and then forget it.
28. well, yeah, of course.
29. absolutely. I hate it when people throw "I love you's" around
30.
31. I don't even know what that means.
32. some are, some aren't. actually, I think they're really clammy.
33. define "good" and define "test"
34. you can learn to spot them, seriously. or at least other guys can tell.
35. true, usually.
36. well, duh, they like them. and yes, absolutely.
37. I dunno. I'm a guy, I don't have a boyfriend. I have a girlfriend. But, it depends on the guy, and I don't really think this is true, unless the guy's a jerk/loser.
38. yeah, be sympathetic, but give him advice, he values what you have to say
39.I hate it when guys do that, but, yeah, maybe I do that once in a while too.
40. uh, like keeping you for himself, sure.
41. Decent guys do.
42. yeah. though that sentence really isn't in english, and usually whatever a guy gets is just so nice and thoughtful that... yeah, guys, thoughtful gifts are better than expensive gifts.
43. you mean they brag about virtually anything. well, if the guy's really insecure, then sure, but a good guy will be really modest.
44. false.
45. some do, some think to little, some don't think at all.
46. ~?
47. uh, I think this depends on the guy, but weight definitely matters (in general) more than height.
48. possessive? depends on the guy, once again. me? not really.
49. it just pisses me off, but... yeah, I guess...
50. what, did you think it was?
51. depends on the guy, but, yeah, you should.
52. how about not getting in a relationship with him until he's mature enough to actually have one? what a concept!
53. I think girls blame themselves a lot though, too, but, yeah, guys more. Emo cuts? Not sure.
54. most guys, true. 75% of guys (at least) have no will power.
55. mostly, yes.
56. I don't sweat when I'm nervous, and I bet a lot of other guys don't either.
57. yes.
58. yes. but guys, you should really never do this. How about actually saying "Please, can you listen to me?"
59. about what? sure we do.
60. uh, sure.
61. you should listen to him period.
62. yes.
63. sure.
64. yeah, I guess.
65. not necessarily true, but... uh?
66. yeah.
67. Dude, basketball is SO not a waste of time......... ...
68. if you make something for a guy he'll love it period.
69. yes. meaning hard-working, dependable, loving, and strong.
70. no, really?
71. depends on the guy and his friends. not usually.
72. yeah.
73. I guess...?
74. yup.
75. lies.
76. I dunno I've never had someone say that to me before, but I imagine that statement's true.
77. yeah. so true.
78. well, not offending, maybe awkward or not funny. basically, he can't believe that you did something "not perfect" if he likes you, if he doesn't like you he just won't smile at all.
79. ?
80. I don't generalize. Maybe some do, but it really depends on the girls you know.
81. deal with what?
82. as in so objectionable? Maybe... depends.
83. ?
84. yeah.
85. uh, no, like, he looks good but is always trying to look better means he's just trying to be attractive. if he's ugly and conscious about his looks and does nothing to change it then he's just a slob.
86. no. absolutely not.
87. dump him the first time, come on.
88. yeah.
89. who is "I?"
but I guess so.
90. yeah.
91. oh yes.
92. well, it depends, I mean, what's "suddenly," most guys are just so nervous about asking a girl out but they just want to hang out.
93. uh, no, that's so not true. well, it depends on the guy, but half of guys would only say that if they're crazy about you, the other half is just flattering you.
94. yeah.
95. uh, didn't you just say the opposite earlier or am I imagining things? Anyway, I seek help from both. perspective, there.
96. things?
97. yeah. especially if he says "beautiful" and not "hot" or "cute," because if he says beautiful he's talking about your inner beauty as well.
98. to what?
99. yes.


well, I think that's what I've got to say... just, girls, don't assume anything about guys because they're all different and, I dunno, you can draw a lot of generalizations about some types of guys if you've known them for a while but, figure it out based on experience, not lists posted on blogs.

[mc05w37]

i agree with it. i think most of these are true unless the guy is gay. lol

[iGuest]

I hate flirts, and I like cute girls. Most of these are bull****. These are depending on the individual. Every guy has his like and dislikes and gues what, they're all different.

[samlockart]

wizardmasteralucard, on May 16 2006, 07:21 PM, said:

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Rule 24 is a load of s**t, lots of girls love gay guys, since they can be more open with them and crap, they also like to think that they can 'convert' them to heteros!

[curtis07]

Okay, some of these are not facts (some of them say things like "listen to him"). Others are absolutely true (I'm a guy, and I DEFINITELY love my mom). Others are horribly inaccurate (but not many). I think most of these are blanket statements about a certain type of guy. For instance, I am a melancholy introvert that is VERY good at keeping a girl's secrets, and I am NOT open about myself. Maybe I'm just not "most guys".

I still think many of these are very well stated. Well done.

[room2593]

This list is often bollocks. It's just lame generalizations and stupidity.
But sometimes it's dead on. Like... to the very core of my being on.

How do you make a list with such contrasts?
It's odd. I wonder if this was made by a girl or by a guy originally. I'm going to guess a girl.
I agree with some of it in any case.

I won't ever let any girl I care about at a full version of this, anyway. Stuff about how your best male friend loves you more than your boyfriend? Seriously? That's not even objective. The more modifier is inaccurate. This would just scare a lot of reasonable people.

[bishoujo]

Interesting read, but like some of the others have said, I believe much of this really depends on the guy's personality. I knew a shy guy who doesn't dare to talk to girls, let alone flirt with them. Also, about no. 30, most of the guys I know are very good confidantes because i can tell them really major stuff and they won't gossip about it to others. I know one guy whom I confided in and the next thing I knew half of the people in our circle of friendship were gossiping about it. I ceased to confide in him from then on.

[justin3]

Hi,

That is interesting list and in this list most of fact are true.
No. 84 for me, this same fact for me when I face problem I'm become cool but always think about the way.

[nol]

are you joking? im pretty much disagreeing with half of those.

ive liked many girls, I haven't even told my wife shes beautiful. I don't think ive used that word once unless it was to my close (girl) friends or other people close to me (not in sexual ways)

and honestly, I don't know one guy that has tried to get back a girl after hes been dumbed. Or didn't take no for an answer. Around here, when a girl says no and you ask her within a year again, thats called disrespect.

[Tran-Gate]

Almost ALL of these apply to me. I think I am going to save this list and read it every once in a while. It reminds me of past experiences. I agree that guys need to experience rejection because then you won't be able to let it go if you get rejected later in life. Face it, I bet you (guys) that if you don't get rejected, you are not going to have very good relationships with other people.

[contactskn]

wizardmasteralucard, on May 16 2006, 07:21 PM, said:

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Well thats great and it may be helpfull for many to improve their relationship with guys by understanding those small small tips. What I think one should just not read it and forget but one should take those really seriously. And thats what I would like to contribute here. 

[Baniboy]

Most of those are true but some of them are just stupid, like "guys hate gays" wtf??? I don't know anyone who hates gays. Also, the weakest point of a guy is not knee, you know where it is so don't type crap about the weakest point being knee. Some of those can apply to someone, but it some of those just can't be true. Guys can keep secrets and guys best friend doesn't know everything about him, believe me.

[ragav.bpl]

wizardmasteralucard, on May 17 2006, 12:51 AM, said:

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Actually i have undergone all this once in my life... These are so true that you can just not reject these and some of them are really heart touching..
Don't you think that these facts should be posted on a girls forum so that it will help them know us better......

[Ousk]

Nice lecture, well what i can say it's that some apply some don't some also apply to girls and some are kind of stupid and funny like

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91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

Doooh!

[iGuest]

Uhhh...really?99 Facts About Guys! Believe It Or Not...

So basically who ever wrote this, is ummm I don't even know how to put it... "When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics" kinda contridicts  "Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!: Guys don't always care about weight...Thats stupid, and these are not fact, like really? "Guys hate gays!" wow, not only does that not make sence, its a fkn opinion...Not fact. I cant even believe that was put on here..."Guys hate gays!" okay uhmm the word Gay is meant now and days as being homosexual and Homosexuals...Are guys...Guys who like guys...They are still guys so what you are saying is guys hate guys...If you were gonna say that you should have said Some Straight guys are not comfortable enough with their sexuality that they will act like they are repulsed by Homosexual men. So yeah I'm suprised by whoever wrote this's lack of education, claps to you...

-reply by Savanna

[iGuest]

 well this doesnt really have anything to do with this but kinda sooo... My friend ashley who I love to death with all my heart was having guy troubles with this guy named adam (who I think is ugly on the inside). Sooo she txts him alot they stary off as friends and hes a year older so his friends where giving him trouble when they started going out. And then not even 3 days after they start going out he breaks up with her because his friends said she looked like a guy with her new haircut. And then he tells her that if she starts shopping at abercrombie or wears skirts or somthing that hell like her. I WANT TO CRACK HIS HEAD OPEN! HOW DARE HE DO THAT SHE WAS CRAZY FOR HIM AND SHE SAID SHE LOVED HIM TO ME THATS HOW MUCH. I THINK ITS REALLY ASTONISHING HOW HE HAS SO LITTLE CONSIENCE TO JUST BREAK UP WITH A GIRL BECAUSE OF SOME TEASING.

-reply by alannah

[iGuest]

well lets see...

#47) grow the hell up

#65) thats just because he can't take it

#67) not all girls are that pathetic

#73) is a double standard if you look at what 47 says

#87) you must be out of your mind...Once a cheater always a cheater...The first time you cheat your **tt is out

#90) give me a break

-reply by Brooklyn

[iGuest]

Hahahahaha, wow. Well, I'm a guy, and seeing some of these ugly comments from girls (especially Savanna and Brooklyn... One over-used word for you two: "Fail." ...And Savanna...Guys do hate gays. Especiallllyyyy the ones that look, act, and sound gay...) about this list are kind of hilarious.Honestly, I'd say these are ALL 100% true.

I was going through each one and I thought, "True...", for every single one, and a few I thought every girl needs to get through their head. Even though guys tend to be joking all the time or teasing...If we try to have a serious conversation...Listen. If we're serious, we're serious. (We have just as many problems as you do, but we just do a better job of hiding them because we don't want everyone to know about them.)

And another very trues ones were the thing about how a guy's friend knows everything about him; I had to think about that one for a minute hahaha. I know I really don't tell my friends that much about myself, they just seem to know after a while.

Really great list though! I was surprised to be honest; this list should be published in other places for girls to see and learn from!

-reply by Jacob

[iGuest]

SHUT THE HELL UP/99 Facts About Guys! Believe It Or Not...

24. Guys hate gays!

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*** IS THAT?

Well, maybe the biggoted idiotic guys YOU know, but most guys with commonsense and a heart will accept everyone.

GO TO HELL.

-reply by Emma.

[iGuest]

I showed this to a majority of my guy friends and every single one that I showed it to was offended by the list.  The consensus seemed to be that some of them were vaguely true, but for the most part the statements were poorly conveyed, biased, and wrong.  I am not sure if this is a girl speaking from some sort of mass experience with men or a man speaking his mind and blanketing his likes, dislikes, understandings, and 'theories' all over the male gender.  Regardless, I have to say if I ever met a man that agreed whole heartedly with everything on this list I would walk away... Quickly.  And my girl friends that I showed this same list to agreed with that assessment.

[iGuest]

it wasn't just teasing he just didn't care about her enough and whenever a girl goes and falls head over heels first we run.