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gisellebebegirl, on Jun 23 2009, 02:57 AM, said:

you know, i think ive learned this lesson the wrong way, but you simply cannot make someone love you

This. It will happen eventually, as long as you're not the world's biggest jerk. Be nice to people, make people happy around you. This increases your interactions with others, and will give you a deeper understanding of human nature as well as provide more opportunities for relationships to develop.

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my honesty is I don't think u can ever get someone to luv u .U can only luv them and hope for them to luv u back.

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How Do You Get Someone To Love You?How Do You Get Someone To Love You?

you cant get any1 to just fall for you, and yes you do have to be yourself and then yes you may get the girl/guy of your dreams, but I really don't think its worth it because I did all the right things and so to speak "got somone to fall in love with me" and that person was the love of my life and I was only sixteen, but everyone knows that realationships don't last forever and of course mine halted quite quickly because I found the love of my life in bed with someone else and it ripped me to shreds and after beating the guy she was with to a pulp, I stood over her as she sit there naked crying, tainted by that thing that was knocked out in the corner, she looked up at me with them eyes the most beautiful eyes I heve ever seen in my life and whispered the words "please don't leave me I love you I need you please don't leave me" sobbing as she whispered this, I stand there brain racing, hands bloody brain racing faster and faster and faster I begin to crack up consumed by love, hatered and rage and start smashing my head off the wall because I wanted the pain to stop and she tried to stop me to no avail because I was 6.1 180 pounds at the time and she was only 5.4, turning to look her in the eyes she flinched I could see the fear in her eyes and I said to her are you scared of me she did not reply, I reached out to put my arms round her and she flinched again I brought my arms back down to my sides and said to her if you really do love me kiss me and she did, when she did I felt her trembiling but that was all I felt I did not feel warmth or love nor haterd or cold heartedness I felt nothing.

and I still feel nothing to this day 5 years on so thats why I do not think that love is worth it,

I am a very lonley person I feel nothing and have a heart made of stone