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[billy_chuck]

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Edited by billy_chuck, 16 September 2008 - 10:51 PM.

[iGuest]

help me...
How Do You Get Someone To Love You?

Ok. So there's a chick I've known, liked, and been best friends with for 7 years and I'ev shown it the whole way. The thing is that we're the exact same to the point where we both chew on straws. Now if that deosn't seem like a perfect match-up, what is, right. Well ,now, some long haired ass-hole (pardon my language) who is in a gang of people who cut themselves, comes in and she bow's to him afer A week. Please tell me your thoughts on this or an answer because I sure as hell don't have one.

-question by TCOB

[iGuest]

there's a girl I am dating but she says she doesn't believe in love.She's very sexually active, I mean, she had oral sex with me and hour after we met. But I like her, she's different than the other girls I've met.She's caring and supportive to me, well that's how she was acting when we hung out, and we've only been dating for 3 days about. Am I going to get emotionally scarred over her?...And is there any possible way she could fall in love with me? 

-reply by Joseph

[mbafactory]

Global, on Jul 10 2006, 05:35 PM, said:

Is there nyway you can get soemone to love you just by being yourself?....

many people change to find love and find it but become unhappy and depressed!

i know this is a hard question and not far off "what is the meaning of life?" but im sure u can help me

Can you really make some one to love you? Love is the reaction, reaction to seeing, feeling, or thinking about someone or something. It is most of the times spontaneous. You can always spread the happiness around you, can talk to people to make them happy, treat everyone with respect and make them feel good. Inducing love is also possible sometimes. If you constantly go on thinking and doing good for someone, their interaction for you converts into love.

Love is a beautiful feeling and I feel it comes to you naturally, feromons do not need much of time to stimulate!

[africa]

I think its kinda hard to be yourself in order to get someone to love you.
Everybody got some insecurities that they try to hide form the time they smell something may happen or just from the time when they meet up.

This we just have to admit. People only come out of their shells probably after marriage that why some break up or claim the other partner is such a bad liar! the lying most often is done with good intentions!

Being yourself and revealing things you think are imperfect about you is kinda hard..let just face it.

[y4nzi]

If you're trying to 'make' someone love you, then you're not being yourself. At least that's how I see it.
If someone doesn't love you for who you are and you have to try and pretend to be someone you're not, then it's not really love (in theory)
But in practice that's pretty hard to come by... if you have you're REALLY lucky .

To start off a relationship you can't just 'be yourself' in a sense, you have to make an effort, get to know the person, and maybe accomodate them a little because there aren't 2 people in this world who are 100% compatible when they meet (i think). Then later on when you're more comfortable with the other person 'being yourself' becomes alot easier.

[iGuest]

I need advice real bad! So I know I love my guy. We have been Together a year and a half. We live together. But yet when I tell him I love him he says ok or yay for me. Its just crazy, I think I act like myself around him. But he says he does not know if he loves me or not but he does care for me.That sounds crazy to me. When we 1st got together we both just got out of really bad relationships. He is such a amazing person. I don"t know what to do... Please help. Should we be together or not? 

[iGuest]

heres the answerHow Do You Get Someone To Love You?

look if u really like her then do the same things she does and shell fall in love do the impossible for her so shell wake up and see how much u love her <3 

-reply by sasha

 

[iGuest]

what about being in love How Do You Get Someone To Love You?hey I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 ...And we relly want to have a baby but I'm still in school I'm in gread 9 and I want a baby relly bad like most people are 15 havein a baby and I'm just thinkin how am I gonna buy it food and stuff and I was sayin my boyfriend makes like 25000 a week so I'm thinkin about havein one in like 3 years so ill be out off school and have a good job to feed my baby :P WHAT SHOULD I DOOO THO??? 

reply by ashley

[iGuest]

I know exactly how u feel me and my boyfriend were together for 4years and happy he told me he wanted me to have his baby and that we would b great parents we were gonna get married and everything but as soon as I found out I was pregnant he was gone  well not like that we started fighting more then there was other girls then I got so stressed out I lost my baby and I was alone and had to deal all my my self... Think about it.

-reply by kadeidra brown