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[Chatz]

CHEATING

Why do people cheat? Why would you want to hurt someone that loves you so much? Is cheating a game? The truth is people usally try to find the quickest way to confort themselfs when a relationship isn't working out and most of the cases you find your partner cheating on u.But is that the proper way of dealing with it?Hurting your partner like that?And it's funny how some times the victim does the same thing just to get back at that person..like they say two wrong's don't make a right.If your relationship isn't working out rather sit down and discuss it with your partner..mabe it's something that both of you can change to make it work..in relationships every one's got to make sacrifices for the better of the relationship.Cheating on your partner will be making things worse and you mite not know but you could be hirting someone.Dn't cheat.work it out.

[husker]

I guess you could say cheating is a game, because when you do it, you win. When you cheat, it justs make you feel better, but the person that was cheated on feels terrible and is probably mad at you. So if you cheat, you win, but in a bad way. It's like a game you don't want to win.

BTW- You put "chatting" instead of "cheating"

Edited by husker, 16 July 2006 - 07:48 PM.

[Panzer]

I dont think cheating works. You see it all in the movies and CSI, people will hire mobsters to hit their partner for revenge when they find out theyve been cheated on. If you were cheated on you should just tell your partner that your leaving.

[brainless]

Question: Is it cheating when someone does not hide or try to hide that he's going out with someone else? After all my experience, the usual "boyfriend-girlfriend-stuff" does not work for me and I have stopped looking for "the one" and the people I go out with know this. I don't have one partner whom I support but, as far as I can spontaneously tell, about four (don't worry, they know about each other, some of them even know each other and they support me as well...)

[tuddy]

Why do people drink underage?, Why do people smoke underage?, Why do people drive underage and the answer is as simple as the this, for 'The Thrill', not the thrill of cheating on your partner (Unless specifically doing it), but for the thrill you get out of this 'Cheating Relationship' that you may not get within your current relationship.

Some people can say that they still love there girlfriend/wife, yet go cheat on her. I don't see how this works, when you love someone, you love them for them, accept them for them, so if they don't want sex til marriage, you accept that, and abide by it cause you love her, not go and find a cheap shag with someone else.

Humans are an evolved speicies and yet, we still can't be honest?, and they say guys cheat more then the girls, thats a load of bulldust, how many chicks do you know that could be so easily 'changed' by a guy with money and an a 6 pack? (The Dream Worthy Guy) lol. Puke! Of course how many guys do you know that could be tempted by a blonde with long legs and plastic surgery done! Typical 21st Socieity

Edited by tuddy, 17 July 2006 - 03:11 AM.

[Chatz]

tuddy, on Jul 17 2006, 03:09 AM, said:

Why do people drink underage?, Why do people smoke underage?, Why do people drive underage and the answer is as simple as the this, for 'The Thrill', not the thrill of cheating on your partner (Unless specifically doing it), but for the thrill you get out of this 'Cheating Relationship' that you may not get within your current relationship.

Some people can say that they still love there girlfriend/wife, yet go cheat on her. I don't see how this works, when you love someone, you love them for them, accept them for them, so if they don't want sex til marriage, you accept that, and abide by it cause you love her, not go and find a cheap shag with someone else.

Humans are an evolved speicies and yet, we still can't be honest?, and they say guys cheat more then the girls, thats a load of bulldust, how many chicks do you know that could be so easily 'changed' by a guy with money and an a 6 pack? (The Dream Worthy Guy) lol. Puke! Of course how many guys do you know that could be tempted by a blonde with long legs and plastic surgery done! Typical 21st Socieity

You right about all of that,but now i want to ask,how do you expact guys to stop cheating when you the girls are doing the same exact thing? Like i said before two wrongs dont make a right.

[Chatz]

Cheating is happing more and more everyday and people are hurting their partners.Its not right to hurt someone like that even more if they are inlove with you.People go on saying they love their partner but yet they find themselfs cheating on them..how can one say they love their partner and cheat on them..hurt them like that..when you love someone you intend to do anything for that person just to see them smile,to see them laugh..make them happy..thats true love..and not going out and cheating on them..no that isnt love.

[Johnny]

Cheating is bad, and it should not be allowed in any relationship. I don't know why it's so common in modern days, but it needs to stop. Nuff said.

[Chatz]

Johnny, on Jul 17 2006, 11:50 AM, said:

Cheating is bad, and it should not be allowed in any relationship. I don't know why it's so common in modern days, but it needs to stop. Nuff said.

People who cheat are bored with their life.They cheat but when they cheated on all they can do is sit and fell like they the vitim.But like johhny said cheating has to STOP..cause at the end you are also hurting yourself

[tuddy]

Just so we are clear! I'm a GUY!!!!!!!! I just speak from mutrual point of view. Guys do it, Chicks do it. Its not about the cheating, its about the fact that no one can ever be happy with what they already have ahold of.

You have million and you risk it for a billion, some can come away with heaps money in ther pocket, other just blow it all, left with nothing. Its a good pick line, How did you lose your last wife?, I cheated on her, Oh lets go get married! Good Luck!

Everyone wants to be like someone else as well, you see all these movies where they get away with it, and then you see people trying to do the same thing, just doesnt happen.