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[mbafactory]

Chating according to me is a phase where you need to rethink about continuing the relationship you have with any person. Being together looks beautiful but getting cheated is lack of trust, destruction of the mutual understanding and more over it is definitely a stage- where things have changed drastically. Don't get emotionalloy fooled or carried away just because your heart says so! Apply your mind and try to work out either by having a all round conversation with your partner, or step towards a break up.
*BLEEP* for tat is definitely not a advisable workout here, but we can always talk. And believe me, you will learn to live without your partner in some time, but if you carry on- it will do a greater damage to your personality.

mbafactory, on Dec 17 2008, 07:38 PM, said:

Chating according to me is a phase where you need to rethink about continuing the relationship you have with any person. Being together looks beautiful but getting cheated is lack of trust, destruction of the mutual understanding and more over it is definitely a stage- where things have changed drastically. Don't get emotionalloy fooled or carried away just because your heart says so! Apply your mind and try to work out either by having a all round conversation with your partner, or step towards a break up.
Doing *BLEEP* for tat is definitely not a advisable workout here, but we can always talk. And believe me, you will learn to live without your partner in some time, but if you carry on- it will do a greater damage to your personality.

[y4nzi]

I don't understand the concept of cheating in a relationship. If you're happy with what you have why cheat? If you're unhappy with what you have, why would you be dishonest and cheat instead of doing the right thing and ending it?

People do make mistakes however, whether they were drunk, the girl was drunk, an opportunity presented itself and they just 'couldn't help it'... but regardless of the reason, if someone cheats on me, it's very hard for me to forgive them. There'll always be that little seed of doubt in the back of my mind going "but it's happened before, what if..."