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[iGuest]

Long Distance RelationshipLong Distance RelationshipsReplying to rejectedI am new to this kind of relationship. I have a long distance relationship with a french guy. I live in US and he lives in France. We have been "together" for over 6 months, and it is very hard.The connection between us is very strong, he is planning his trip to US and I am so excited.All I can say is if you love him and feel "the connection , the bond" don't brake it you may be missing out. I love him so much and he does too, his friends a family have met me through skype!And I trust him a lot.-reply by MERY

[iGuest]

I need help!Long Distance Relationships

First of all excuse me for my language I'm not that good in expressing what I want to tell..

Coming to the point...I'm about to leave my boyfriend,but I do love him,but there are many reasons preventing me from talking to him.First he is two years lower then me in school..I'll be attending university this year and he is still bac1,,,second my parents are not much convinced with this relation...Third he seems so young (but I do love him)...Forth,if I continue this relation we will be in a long distance relationship,,,where I wont be able to visit him neither he,except on holidays...Just wanna know is it wise to continue this relationship anyway???and what to do about it?Please I need advise I am so confused.

Thanks.

Zena.

-reply by zena

[ASHISHRANJAN]

HI........................
WANT TO KNOW HOW TO MAINTAINS A
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP TO YOUR
LOVING PERSION, THEN LOVE HER WITH YOUR BOTTOM
OF THE HEART BECAUSE HEART RELATION SHIP IS MORE
BONDING

[aloKNsh]

oohk gr8
thank you i am tring to love her from bottom of my heart but then also she cant understand my love

[iGuest]

2 hours away from each other doesnt matter as long as you both love each other..Just trust each others heart..In fact we have the same story..But the difference is not just hours but miles away..We only see each other during vacations like summer or christmas break..Keep this in mind, "do not find the 10% of missing part of your relationship..Always think for the 90% that makes it the best relationship that u had.."

[user681]

I just ended an long distance relationship..and let me tell you this isn't my first long distance relationship either.
It's PROBABLY not going to work out. You're far better off finding someone else locale.
I'm not saying that it is impossible however the chances of having things work out is slim to none.

[FouGilang]

I just ended my 4-month long distance relationship with my girlfriend
It worked out perfect until someday she felt there's something different because of my absense and blah blah blah
I said its because i want to do some things alone and dont want to be disturbed by anybody, including her.
Then she say blah blah blah and we broke up
Sad? No, really .___.

I wont say wether i or she wrong here
It just... If you want to survive at this kind of thing, you have to trust her.
Even if she said she want to be alone, then leave her alone. If you really have trust in her, you wont have to question "why?"
Just keep in your mind that you'll always be in your place for her, and she'll always be there for you.

If you got that one, dont forget about Communicate, since you both are well communicator, it would be easy

[fermin25]

The long distance relationships are foolish. How can you love to a person that lives thousand of miles from you? That is impossible. What do the intelligent people when they have to be separated? They break up and that is the solution to all the long distance relationships. Don´t fall in the lie that "The love have no limits" that is a chinese fairy tale. That´s not truth. Logically a person cant be alone, if you know about the sex is much difficult. When you meet a new person you only will feel love if you see that person over and over again. But if you dont see the person the heart dont feel anything and your mind start to say you that forget the past and create a future and you automatically start to meet new persons. The love is crazy but it is logical too. But other thing is if you for example want to re-meet a person from your past where you can admit there is some facility to fall in love again because there are a past when both can be remembering and you automatically start to see in the other person some cualities that you maybe dont remember or never could see. The love is complicated so the long distance relationships only conduct to a site: the infedility and the break-ups. The solution to avoid the infidelity is break-up since the first time you will be separated.

[iGuest]

Long distance relationships do work...My sister and her man were going out for a while, he lived in canada and she was out here in the U.S. Now they are married happiest people ever.  I think communication is key, and my boyfriend and I hv been going out for about 4 months now, we are 1700 miles apart. He tried to come down once a month, but last time he was out here was 3 weeks ago, and only coming in 4 weeks. It sucks but it's all worth it. You just have to be strong and talk all the time. My communication with him really did improve and I prefer long distance, cuz I have such a busy life.

[iGuest]

2 hours long distant relationship. HELP!Long Distance RelationshipsMe and this guy lives 2 hours away. We haven't seen each other but we know exactly who we are, what we do, what we want to become, and all the extras. We honestly love each other but his parents wont let him drive to see me. He thinks we should just wait. But I don't want to wait. I want to be with him right now. What do I do? I do not want to lose him.-reply by breanna