I used to really like a guy without being able to explain why I liked him. I realized at one point that I liked him because I liked him when I just got to know him, but then he changed and I really sort of hated him and it was more of a habit to like him than actually liking him (besides the fact that he was good looking).... Annoying.
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Posted 13 August 2007 - 08:35 PM
I'm shy about this kind of stuff myself, so probably just casually saying you "kind of like her" a year ago will make her unsure of how to react. She probably didn't know how serious you were about it, if that meant you'd want to go out with her, or if you wanted to know her feelings about you.
Since it's been a year that you've been good friends, I doubt she'll see you as a potential boyfriend right now. Maybe when you told her you kind of liked her a year ago something might have sparked, but after nothing more on the subject since, she's probably given up on the idea.
My suggestion is, flirt with her a bit (friendly flirting, though,) and see if she flirts back. If you feel chemistry with her, chances are she can feel it too and when you're ready, ask her out properly, so that this time you'll get a proper answer and no matter which way it goes, things will be settled and you can either a), move on, or b ), come out of it with a girlfriend
Since it's been a year that you've been good friends, I doubt she'll see you as a potential boyfriend right now. Maybe when you told her you kind of liked her a year ago something might have sparked, but after nothing more on the subject since, she's probably given up on the idea.
My suggestion is, flirt with her a bit (friendly flirting, though,) and see if she flirts back. If you feel chemistry with her, chances are she can feel it too and when you're ready, ask her out properly, so that this time you'll get a proper answer and no matter which way it goes, things will be settled and you can either a), move on, or b ), come out of it with a girlfriend
Edited by Cherish, 13 August 2007 - 08:36 PM.
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Posted 02 January 2012 - 09:40 PM
I am having the exact same problem atm, however the girl i really like ive been best friends with for over 2 years, we talk about everything but i know she doesnt fancy me! she admitted she liked me about 18 months ago but at the time i had just come out of a relationship and i thought it was too soon, i kept up contact with her for the next few months and we flirted like hell! all of our friends just told me to hurry up and ask her out... so i did.. and she declined saying she was too scared to ruin our friendship, i know for a fact that once me and her go out we will be together for many years.
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