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[cgrim29588]

I wrote this and sent this as advice to my buddies. lol

think I no how to get a girl. you should make friends with her friends. Compliment them stuff like that. Soon when you guys are close friends ask her if the girl you like likes you. Well thats all there is to do simple as 123


if they stop and look at you if they look at you alot if they laugh at you such as if you say jokes if they act like there dying if they gargle and act like drunk crazy girls and look at you and have that look that makes you think -CUT-



when a girl likes you she seems to looks at you a lot, she may avoid you, ignore


If you've noticed that she has gradually began to get closer to you......ex: sitting w/ you at lunch, talking w/ you more, asking if you want to go do something, or hanging w/ your friends.

She may also be mean to you....make fun of you when you do something stupid or have a good come back when you've completely set yourself up for it.

Staring at you and looking away or acting like she was looking at something else when you notice.

She may begin to take an interest in things you like and when you are sitting by her and either you arm or leg "accidentally" touches hers and she doesn't move and if she does its to scoot closer to you


When you talk to the girl you like, you should be able to tell if she likes it or not. If she laughs at the things you say, even it isn't that funny, and if she pays full attention to you when you talk to her. I think letting a girl know you like her is always a good thing, because most of the time we can sense it anyway, even if we're not sure about it. If she likes you back, she'll tell you, but if not, she won't think you're weird for telling her. She'll be flattered that someone likes her. So, flirt and if she responds well, tell her.



Please remember this freinds, all girls are different, some are the shy type, some are the more active type as in acting a bit more forward, a girl that is just naturally a shy type will express her like for you by trying to ignore u, hardly speeks to u but u will notice her stare(give u glances) and u may notice her try to look away quickly so that u dont catch her , u may even catch her smile at u at times, it will seem very obvious by the way she tries to avoid u. You'll just notice. Now on the other hand a girl that is more active will tend to stand closer to u when u talk with her and stuff... she may wont to keep talking to a bit longer as in dragging the conversation i have much 2 say on this im an expert.


They may touch your stuff and say they have same stuff as u. it's really annoying though. if a girl likesu they might complain about sitting with u so u don't notice she likes u.


If you want to know if she likes you get a few people around you and ask them all who they like just so when it comes to asking the girl you like, it will seem natural that you're asking everyone. IF she stumbles for an answer or blushes or is like 'uh no-one' (giggle giggle) or looks at her friend for an answer, then you can be nearly 100% sure (not that good)


if a girl you like tries to act like she isnt interested u shud ask her bcoz she may be actin like that just to try and make it not seem as opbviouse if u think a girl likes you u shud ask her wot she thinks ov u if she doesnt answer or looks to sum1 for help u can be sure she likes u


well there a few different ways... 1. ask her friends 2. ask her in person 3. flirt and find out 4. ask a friend to ask her 5. ask her on phone or computer



the only thing i can say about knowing if a girl likes you really depends on their personality. but in general, they will ALWAYS STARE! they will SMILE AT YOU A LOT! they will TRY TO TOUCH YOU (like wow...can i feel your hair, they'r like cotton! or...gimme your arm, i wanna see how long it is etc. )and her friends would come up to you and ask you questions about her...that just shows she's been talking about you to her friends (most girls do that...tell her friends about her crush i mean). they will SUDDENLY BE IN A LOT OF PLACES YOU'RE IN coincidentally..cough cough...but make sure if it's really a coincident or not....


I know that lots of ppl have said this before but EYE CONTACT is like the biggest way that you will know if a girl likes you. But sometimes girls might not act like they like you because you might not make it obvious enough. But for the most part I would advise guys to (if you are always making eye contact with some girl ) make the first move.

Word yo.
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[Dawiss]

I think lots of things you have posted here is truth (from experience) but not always all girls are same and boys to.. the science people even in these 2006 years havn't realised all about girls or boys. Thats a mistery because there aint to two same people in whole world even realising we are 7 billions but still nothing same..

[spieleforum]

nice tutorial
so at first i must get close to her friends?
sounds good

i have a good tip too i saw it at ali G. (its a british TV show)
if you dont want to wait try to :
when she is talking to you
just smile at her and dont say anithing just look in her eyes so she knows that u like her verry verry much i think most girls like this and will get embrased then u can tuch her a little bit maybe on her shoulder or her hand and then ask her why she is so beautiful or somethink like this i think she wont ever get u out of her mind

[iwuvcookies]

I doubt a high maintenance girl would react in such ways. lol. First you gotta buy them prada bag and than you get close. haha.

But also from some knowledge I think that some of these are really good advice. I have some more tricks up my sleeve too. hehe. can't expose them or maybe i don't have any. oh well you'll just have to guess and find your own ways of "mating" girls.

[BluePwNaGe]

Ok Coming from a girl....

Not ALL girls react like that... you need to know who she is

she might seem totally OUt there and loud with her friends..

but who knows with boys she could be shy and timid

the best thing to do is just start a conversation when she is alone.

not with friends so it won't feel to weird for (or scarey)

make sure you have great breath ... or she'll think twice



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The Girlfriend

[pixieloo]

Some of those are true (at least for me), but all girls are different, and they might not react the same way. The best thing to do is to get to know the girl first. Friendship first.

[cgrim29588]

iwuvcookies, on Sep 1 2006, 10:54 PM, said:

I doubt a high maintenance girl would react in such ways. lol. First you gotta buy them prada bag and than you get close. haha.

That's trur, I hate girls who are high maintence, I like a low maintence girl.

[brenji]

Well, coming from another girl, I'm not sure . . . how much you can read into it. Because, well, again, depending on the person, it might be difficult to determine if there's really something going on between the two.


Because I, personally, sit next to, laugh at, poke fun of, hang out, go through people's things with nearly all my friends (guys and girls).
Even the whole eye contact thing is a bit iffy since some girls totally avoid contact with the people they like.
So, in this case, yes, it really depends on personality.
The more social a person is, the more likely they'll exhibit more social like behaviors such as touch and eye contact.
The less social a person is, rather, the more timid a person is, the more likely you'll see him/her ignoring the other or avoiding eye contact and such. This sort of behavior is probably more juvenile (very junior high/high school), but it still often happens even well into adulthood depending on how active and in tune he/she is with the opposite sex.

iwuvcookies, on Sep 1 2006, 03:54 PM, said:

I doubt a high maintenance girl would react in such ways. lol. First you gotta buy them prada bag and than you get close. haha.

But also from some knowledge I think that some of these are really good advice. I have some more tricks up my sleeve too. hehe. can't expose them or maybe i don't have any. oh well you'll just have to guess and find your own ways of "mating" girls.

cgrim29588, on Sep 2 2006, 08:31 AM, said:

That's trur, I hate girls who are high maintence, I like a low maintence girl.

Haha . . . Well, coming from a girl, I think I have the right to say this.
So, here's an advice: avoid girls like these.

"High maintenance" girls are only in it for the money. They'll often use you and throw you away.
That's just how manipulative girls can be. ;D
(Alright, I know I'm generalizing, but still . . . Best to avoid them. I've seen and met girls like these and, usually, they're personalities are really horrible.)

Edited by brenji, 04 September 2006 - 07:15 AM.

[demonatashadow]

dude, you know what you should do? follow MY advice

act yourself and when you are ready

tell her that you like her and you want to go out

[Tetraca]

Let's show this in a psychoanalytical point of view.

So somebody likes you...or rather, their unconscious mind likes you, and has desires for you, communicated to the conscious mind as emotion through a censor called the foreconscious.
Now, what would they do if they liked you? They'd do something irrational at first - something which supports the unconscious mind's desire, most likely, if they haven't talked at all with you. The irrationality either translates into hatred, or conscious action. If the person is introverted, they will not approach you, and will instead, do something more through the conscious thought process and work in a shy manner towards it. If the person is extroverted, they will be more aggressive in their manners. If you wish to do something, you must be agressive in either situation if you want something to do with that person. If you dislike that person, you can stop the unconscious desire by making the unconscious dislike you. The only way you may do this is by acting contrary to your own unconscious mind, or not depending on your conditon.

In English: Unkowningly they like you, and it is conveyed by emotion. How they react is going to be different depending on if they're shy or not, and you can stop or promote that unkowing liking. How, I do not know - I'm more of a group person when it comes to people.

[iGuest]

A complicated question..How To Tell If A Girl Likes You

If a girl was following you in the begining, like sending u msgs and saying that your trying to avoid her while she's trying to get close to you. Then when u went out a couple of times she started slowing down her contacts .And then when u cut your contact with her she tells u that she miss u .

but she keeps her contact to slow down.

what does this mean? .. Your help is appreciated:)

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[iGuest]

I'm a girl and I think SOME people would act like this,

But I know that girls LOVE a guy who's nice.

If you joke to her rudely but trying to be funny and kidding you might think It's a joke but maybe later she'll go home crying from what you said about her...

Trust me... It happens..

Also, If a girl tells you she likes you it took lots a guts to do that! So at least tell her no thanks and be polite. :) Thats what all girls look for I'm sure.

-reply by Linds

[iGuest]

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Ok I have to agree,I have caught myself just looking at my crush not even realizing it until he looked me straight in the eyes.I quickly looked away and he smiled.THIS PAGE IS 100% TRUE!! 

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[iGuest]

datingHow To Tell If A Girl Likes You

hey thanks for tuortial but I have a question I'm in 7th grade and this girl is real pretty she puts he legs on me and messes with me a little and when I make jokes she laughs a lot does she like me Please respone back because I like her to. 

[iGuest]

How to get a girl to like youHow To Tell If A Girl Likes You

hey, speaking from a girl's point of view, if you want her to know you like her, just smile at her if you catch her eye, make small talk, like "How was you're weekend?" Don't randomly blabber on pointlessly-If she stutters when talking to you, it usually means she likes you, because she's nervous.  When you're talking to her, touch her arm, or put your arm on the back of her chair. If you sit next to her in class, don't sit on the extreme edge of your chair and lean away from her like she has cooties. THIS IS NOT FIRST GRADE! Be  confident!  Chances are, she's just as shy as you!  "Accidentally" bump her leg under the table or touch her hand. Angle yourself toward her when you're talking to each other.  Try to be friends first and then ask her out.  Write her a note explaining your feelings and stick it in her locker. Ask her to talk to you after school, sit next to her whenever you get the chance, join in a conversation with her and her friends, but don't barge in, only join casually in if you know what the topic really is.  If she gets uncomfortable or freaked out, RELAX. Give her a day or two  to calm down, and approach her again. Flirting is the best way to keep her attention towards you. Say, "hey, what's up?" when you pass her in the hall, give her a high five,  nudge her with your shoulder.  If you catch her eye in class, smile and hold it as long as possible; if it gets uncomfortable, agian, back off for a little while.  There's your girl tips.  Now its your turn to help me figure out how to get a guy to like me! :)

<3, Amber

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[iGuest]

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Those are very large signals of her liking you. By truth those signals make it so totally obvious.  If she puts her legs on you and laughs at what you say, there is no doubt that she likes you. When its a good time ask her if she likes you just to be safe.  Remember, it depends what type of girl she is that will vary her answer.  If she says yes then its all gud and ask her out.  But on the other hand if she replies no it can mean either of two things. Either she actually does like you, OR she is just to embarassed and shy to admit it and this is gud. From all the other advices ive heard them say to wait a week or a few.  But in your situation if you SURE she likes you then ask her out.  If she says no then don't take it so seriously and say okay, and Ask if you guys can still be friends. But if she replies YES, then WALA! and you just got yourself a gf, gud job homie

[iGuest]

no way!~!How To Tell If A Girl Likes YouThis would never work. I'm a girl and your whole theory is all wrong. Don't go for being friends with her friends, that would just give her the wrong idea. Man, you don't know what girls want-reply by Billy Joe

[iGuest]

nice tutorial the txting part isnt good though cause most girls like it a heck of a lot better if u ask in person and I suggest just askin her out causeshe will like your courage and most likely say yes because right now I have a girl I like and will most likely try to ask her out tommorrow

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[iGuest]

How to know the girl has shifted attention away from you ?How To Tell If A Girl Likes YouIf a girl likes you and has given some signals that she likes you but you were'nt sure about it. (1) that the girl herself was'nt sure about her liking for you (2) that the girl was too shy to express (3) the girl is a jumping type -I.E. Changes her liking frequently .- due to the genetic structure of their brains - they often need to evaluate and assess the BEST male as a partner. In modern days - with contraceptives in every woman's purse, casual sex is in and most girls are genetically tuned to changing parterners repeatedly to give birth to the best combinations of genes (though actual pregnancy rarely happens, yet the girls biological system does'nt know it) Actually, most girls don't stick to one guy for long - a girl may try someone for a while then shift attention to another and then another. In most cases, shy guys fall prey into such a good habit of girls. A girl, say likes boy A now and has given sufficient signals to A, A being shy either did not have the courage to respond then, but in the process has fallen in love with the girl, the girl - getting no response shifts attention to another boy B, when A realises what he had got, its too late and now B is in. A feels dejected and curses the girl calling her names. So its very imp. To know when the girl has shifted attention away from you !The following are tell-tale signs of a girl shifting attention :Though painful and a heart-burn - yet its true and a fact that you have to face one day or another in any man-woman relationship :(1) the girl looks at other males even in your presence - without consciously realising what she's doing.(2)the girt gets irritated with whatever you say - good or bad(3) your praises for her are received non-challantly(4) the girl hardly looks at you(5) the girl gives more importance to her GIRL friends and wants to spend time more with her girl friends and particularly doing activities an uninvolved girl would do(6) your and her contact time is reduced for no reason(7) she does'nt return calls -- well thats it, its over, and dig at it at your own peril, and find out the new guy she is interested in - if you can bear it.Don't blame yourself, the new guy could be half your worth, but change is thy name WOMAN.-question by saurav

[iGuest]

how do u now when a girl likes u sos plese help meHow To Tell If A Girl Likes You

 there this girl I like and she shows me lots of signs that she like me but I'm confuse and she has a bf I'm going to show u the signs she show me can u please help by Telling me if she likes me or not She would look at me all the time and pass my homeroom class where I does be just to see me then she would glance her eye at me and if I catch her or spot her looking at me shell blush and start smiling then come over and say something Random to me so it wont be so occurred that she always looking at me and 1 time when we had an assembly she usually sits a certain spot but instead this time she saw me siting down and must be saw and opportunity to sit by me so she came by me and look at me for the longest then one of her friends finally woke her up out of her trans so then she went and sat right behind me then she pluck my ears and started playing with my heir saying it is so soft then ev day she see me and I int looking she will hit me gentile on the back of my head or touch me on my shoulder to get my attention she would talk to me online every week end and when we dnt have school for hour-es but and when I say something funny or stupid shell laugh and playfully call me crazy or stupid then at school she does be very nervous to talk to me but she still make the effort to then when we do talk she gets jumpy and over excited and shell smile the hole time we speek one of my frends told me she does always ask about me in class to him and that ahe allways talking about me I told her I like her and she was shock I tell her then she say I I'm bold so then I new it was kinda un excpected to her so I play it off by trying to make her laugh by saying things like I cant belive I actually just tell u that so the momment wont fell weird she say she new I like her but I she didint say that she like me or she dount like me I thing its cause she has a bf and she reely likes him alot so tell me do u thing she like me and its cause of her bf why she dosent say any thing

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