cgrim29588, on 29 August 2006 - 05:04 PM, said:

when a girl likes you she seems to looks at you a lot, she may avoid you, ignore


If you've noticed that she has gradually began to get closer to you......ex: sitting w/ you at lunch, talking w/ you more, asking if you want to go do something, or hanging w/ your friends.

She may also be mean to you....make fun of you when you do something stupid or have a good come back when you've completely set yourself up for it.

Staring at you and looking away or acting like she was looking at something else when you notice.

She may begin to take an interest in things you like and when you are sitting by her and either you arm or leg "accidentally" touches hers and she doesn't move and if she does its to scoot closer to you


When you talk to the girl you like, you should be able to tell if she likes it or not. If she laughs at the things you say, even it isn't that funny, and if she pays full attention to you when you talk to her. I think letting a girl know you like her is always a good thing, because most of the time we can sense it anyway, even if we're not sure about it. If she likes you back, she'll tell you, but if not, she won't think you're weird for telling her. She'll be flattered that someone likes her. So, flirt and if she responds well, tell her.



Please remember this freinds, all girls are different, some are the shy type, some are the more active type as in acting a bit more forward, a girl that is just naturally a shy type will express her like for you by trying to ignore u, hardly speeks to u but u will notice her stare(give u glances) and u may notice her try to look away quickly so that u dont catch her , u may even catch her smile at u at times, it will seem very obvious by the way she tries to avoid u. You'll just notice. Now on the other hand a girl that is more active will tend to stand closer to u when u talk with her and stuff... she may wont to keep talking to a bit longer as in dragging the conversation i have much 2 say on this im an expert.


They may touch your stuff and say they have same stuff as u. it's really annoying though. if a girl likesu they might complain about sitting with u so u don't notice she likes u.


If you want to know if she likes you get a few people around you and ask them all who they like just so when it comes to asking the girl you like, it will seem natural that you're asking everyone. IF she stumbles for an answer or blushes or is like 'uh no-one' (giggle giggle) or looks at her friend for an answer, then you can be nearly 100% sure (not that good)


if a girl you like tries to act like she isnt interested u shud ask her bcoz she may be actin like that just to try and make it not seem as opbviouse if u think a girl likes you u shud ask her wot she thinks ov u if she doesnt answer or looks to sum1 for help u can be sure she likes u


well there a few different ways... 1. ask her friends 2. ask her in person 3. flirt and find out 4. ask a friend to ask her 5. ask her on phone or computer



the only thing i can say about knowing if a girl likes you really depends on their personality. but in general, they will ALWAYS STARE! they will SMILE AT YOU A LOT! they will TRY TO TOUCH YOU (like wow...can i feel your hair, they'r like cotton! or...gimme your arm, i wanna see how long it is etc. )and her friends would come up to you and ask you questions about her...that just shows she's been talking about you to her friends (most girls do that...tell her friends about her crush i mean). they will SUDDENLY BE IN A LOT OF PLACES YOU'RE IN coincidentally..cough cough...but make sure if it's really a coincident or not....


I know that lots of ppl have said this before but EYE CONTACT is like the biggest way that you will know if a girl likes you. But sometimes girls might not act like they like you because you might not make it obvious enough. But for the most part I would advise guys to (if you are always making eye contact with some girl ) make the first move.

Word yo.
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o.k. i admit you get us gals pretty good. BUT most of us r smart enough not to stumble with the "who I like" game. Now if you could help us figure u guys out that would be perfect.
:-)thx- mo

IF you like a girl>

Approach her, ask her out , be a man, no point in playing around and giving her signals and wasting time, just get it done with.

Worst scenario what could happen, she will say "NO" but then you would have never met her in the case where you never asked her out, so by doing this at least you have a chance.

I guess a girl will like it if any guy shows some guts and asks her out directly, also that way she knows that you like her.

Also one more very important thing, never cheat a girl,ask her out only if you are genuinely interested in her.

Once she says yes to meet you, take it forward from there, get to know her, give her time, give her space, do not aggressively pursue or trouble her 24x7, give it time.

And you may never know, you might one day be with the girl of your dreams.

I'm a girl and yes what you said is quite right. There are many types of girls and they kind of react differently when they like someone.

I'm this type :

''when a girl likes you she seems to looks at you a lot, she may avoid you, ignore.
Staring at you and looking away or acting like she was looking at something else when you notice.''

Maybe because I don't want to make it obvious. And I only do that when I really really like or 'love' that person cos I'll get all nervous and don't know how to react or behave around him. I can't be natural when I know he's around or looking at me. But if I just like that someone, but not so much, then I'll still be able to talk or communicate with him, look him in the eyes and all.

Hope it helps you guys to figure out about your girl crushes.

@ guest_mo_* or any other girl that wants to know what to look 4 if a guy likes u,

I am a shy guy so this might not be completely helpful.

Generaly,if i like a girl, I try to talk to them even if it seems awkward. Sometimes, if I can't bare to see them keep guessing like if its not clear enough, I flat out tell them. Maybe if the guy has told his friends, if they are also ur friends, u could ask them. sometimes they just tell u even if u dont want to know.

The guy might talk 2  u and stutter. (again, this is my shy side showing) They might sneak some candy into ur locker on Valentines day with a note or something attatched to it to give ua breif clue of who's ur secret admirer.

They will ask 4 ur number or give u theirs. if they r really shy, they might only b able to express themselves over chat or txting.

They might try to sit closer 2 u as often as possible. To test if u like them back, they might try 2 play hard 2 get and claim they have a gf if they know u like them.

That's all I have but if u r of another personality guys, plz try 2 add 2 this.

u can use all dat info but, of course, it's all comin' from a shy guy.
--TJ