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[iGuest]

I know that the guy likes me and soo are my friends he is asking to be my boyfriend I like him but I don't know what to say if I say yes and my mom finds out I am soo dead but I really like to be his girlfriend what should I do I am soo tired of pretending I want to follow my heart !/txtmngr/images/smileys/smiley5.Gif

-reply by marie danielle rivera

[iGuest]

Well... I am more with Tuddy's side.. I'm a girl, actually, and I haven't really asked anyone.. I did like this guy that knew I liked him, but he was pretty cool with it, but neither me or him did anything about this.. Then it was forgotten, and we both moved on. I soon got a GREAT boyfriend that I loved back, and fell for even more after he asked me out. Sometimes, if you think the time is not right, you just have to go with the flow.. Maybe the relationship didn't happen because its not meant to be- because right next door, there is a MUCH better person just ready to walk in! :) So don't be depressed if you get rejected. Yes, it is embarrassing at first but things will be forgotten, and you'll move on.. And I can guarantee, you will find someone MUCH better very soon~ Don't be afraid, be a strong person, and confess. Its better to try and fail than to fail to try and wonder and regret. :) I know it's weird getting told by a person who never got rejected.. But I kinda know how it feels, and saw a lot of people experiencing these problems like my friends.. So I really can feel the pain :) And no I am not lucky, and its not easy for me to get people. It only happens because they are meant to be with you... Even if something happens, and you two separate, you were once together, because at that instance, you were fated to meet, and love :) It might change, but thats only because you deserve a better person and a better love :) 

-reply by InLoVe<3

[gisellebebegirl]

no i did not get regected, i got led on, and then the guy completely pushed my hopes to the ground playing with my emotions saying that he only pretended to like me, because i liked him

as for other people doing it to me, they have
and i dont know for me, most of the time it is kinda awkard, specially if they person is not my type
or they rush into sexing minute 5 after meeting them..

aka, last week on the bus, when a guy was telling me in spanish how pretty i was and how he wanted to date me
and wanted to know my number so we could hang out
and tellng me he wanted to be my man,,
i had to lie and get on the bus that went the opposite direction
and was 30 minutes lATE!
i know i sound like a complete snob for doing that, but i was petrified for my life
i was thinking the guy was gonna try to kidnap me or had a gun so i could not run away
haha


anyways, i thought the post was for us to confess to somoene that we like, that we liked them, so how about we turn the post and start posting that!

heres mine:

dear ___ even though you did that to me, and really hurt me, i want you to know that i still like you, and im sorry if i said i never wanted to talk to you again, and that i hated you, you know, you are my dream guy, and i think i would be lucky if you liked me back. really liked me bac,

[iGuest]

I just confessed to this girl half an hour ago. She is a junior(college) and I'm a sophmore(college). I met her in Bio class 3 weeks ago and got her number. Since then, I flirted with her in class. Walked with her back to her apartment bldg. And even chilled at her place once, having great conversations. I often made her laugh and she always smiled when I talked to her. After stopping infront of her apartment, I stopped her before she could leave and confessed to her. I told her "Wait, I got to tell you something...I should be honest with you and I want to tell you that I like you". She at first appeared suprised. She told me she appreciated my honesty but she is not looking for a relationship at this point because her life's too hectic. I understood her and even though it didn't end as I would want it to, I felt good about telling her. If you think you built a connection between u and someone else, from personal experience, I would tell you to grow balls and go for it. It doesn't matter whether she feels the same way or not because no matter what, she'll respect you more for it and you'll gain confidence from the experience( I know I did).

-reply by Akman

[iGuest]

So I confess to her... IDK. She said she doesn't know what to say.. Then it feels a bit awkward then she head to bed... Am I got rejected or she just doesn't know what to sayWe are lab partner at this vocational school. We get along pretty well and she lean her head on me all the time.

[iGuest]

Hi, I need to ask an opinion especially for girls, so what do you think if there's a guy friend, a funny guy, friendly, nice kinda guy suddenly confessed to you?will you hate that guy for doing that?will it ruin your good relationship you had with that guy who is already a friend?

-reply by guestwhat

[iGuest]

Need advice!Confessing To Someone You Like

Hi guys..My situation is I know this girl through friends and I only know her for like 1 months plus but meet like 3 times. The last time I meet her was a friend birthday celebrating at a beach, we had that night we drank some alcohol but I drank more than her but I know what am I doing so does she, so when I was back from washroom and she walks towards me and gave me a big and long hug and after that we on our way to take a cab, along the way she said that she felt bored and she use her hand bind with my right arm. I believed maybe this is a sign. But I don't know how to confess to her or where should I start?

[iGuest]

Confessing To Someone You LikeConfessing To Someone You LikeReplying to fallenfirebanshiReplying to fallenfirebanshiI confessed to this girl in my freshman class. I'd like her for about four months and I found out she liked a senior. I didn't like the thought of not telling her, so one night I write an entire letter confessing my love for her and how that came to be. Needless to say, she rejected me. It's taken me a while to get over her. In fact, I don't think I have yet. And although I never won her love, I've found someone else I can be myself around and I love him for who he is as well.-reply by TesaNotTeresa