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My storyLong Distance Cyber Relationship

This was a great story and it's given me encouragement! To know that it works out for others is wonderful! I hope you don't mind if I tell a little story I have that is very similar.I met a boy about two years ago. We met on a site called neoseeker. A video game advise site. We became friends and start fake dating quickly after we met. And then we got fake married and had fake kids. It was cute and very fun. But he kinda broke my heart six months later because he was to afraid of commitment. I didn't know that at the time and blamed myself. Because I had done something we both thought wouldn't happen. I really fell in love with him. I was heart broken for months. I was also going through a bad teenage stage in my life so that's why I was so depressed. He had started fake dating one of my best online friends just a week after he broke up with me. But to my surprise he broke up with her two months later and then two months after that asked me out again. And it was really fun. We had started voice chatting over our the ds wi-fi connection using pokemon diamond to voice chat. And we had also finally shown each other our pictures. But for some reason he broke up with me a couple of months after we got back together. I was shattered again.. I couldn't believe it. And once again after us not being together for just a few weeks he started dating my same friends again.It's been more than six months since they started dating. And since then we have started webcaming and talking on the phone. He's working on telling his parents about me. And I'm working on going down to Florida to visit him this summer. We've never met.I am not sure if I still love him.. Recently my feelings have changed from undying love to confused.. But he now claims to love me even though he's still dating our friend. He says he knows who he wants to marry.Now I know this story seems childish but we're both 16 and in 10th grade. Sky has a great plan for his future is a a straight A student going to Finland next year to study over there. Depending on when we meet this summer and how we maintain our relationship while he's over seas we might just start really dating.I feel like if things work out and we start dating he will be the boy I marry. It's still to early to say that but still I have a feeling.Thank you so much for reading my little story. A story so very important to me. I hope you enjoyed it

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That's cute, I am very happy for the both of you. I hope things work out the same way for me, I've always had a feeling that I would meet my future husband on the internet. If it works out that way or not it's good to know that some long distance relationships/cyber relationships do work out. 

[roger112]

Well, let me add mine too!

-About 5 months ago, around November I was just killing time, chatting to random people on this other chat site when I bumped into someone, real special and it happened without me knowing lol. The site is very small but its getting popular by the day. It doesn't show anything and people just go there to chat with a random stranger. After failing to strike convo with about ten people, I was fed up and was just about to jump off when I met the girl who's my current gf.

We had an amazing chat and right off the bat, we connected. I had never felt like that in my entire life!! You know finally find someone who you can truly talk to and she hollers back in the same breath, you forget all about distance. i was too overjoyed and the next day I proposed. She was shocked herself but I maintained I meant it even though at the time I didn't really and we started dating. It was wonderful, awesome for the first few months before her parents discovered she was having an e-relationship and crushed the party.

Now it's like 2 years since the parents intervened but now we're dating again!! we met last year and one thing led to another...now we got two cute babies but we aint married because she has to finish school and I'm staying far from home right now.

Internet is all about meeting people and how the relationships end, is your decision. I'm happy to have met this baby and hopefully, we'll spend the rest of our days together.

[mandla]

@Roger 122

I guess if you made 2 cute babbies that means you should have either twins meaning you beea seing her physically for over 10 months or or if the kids are not twins the that wopuld mean you been physically seeing each other for over 20 months. That also means your e-relationship has turned out quite well as you probably have got to know each other so much better in this time cause most relationships would have failed by now.

I'd say in your book e-dating has actually worked out well for you and I wish you all the best.

I sortof had an internet dating thingy going on but it got complicated and I quit. Basically I meat this woman online and we clicked and we sortof started exchanging emails and all that. The emails and the chats had that connection and I would look forward to her mails every morning we would exchange stories etc and I thought i was getting to know her and was being open about the things i wanted in a relatioship. She would ask me what my ideas were on marriage and dating and how I judge people or all that and I was honest but then she dropped a bombshell on me she said She had the same beliefs as i did but then had omitted something before. I asked what that was and she told me she was married. The reason why she didnt tell me before is because in her view her wedding was over shortly after it started she claimed her husband changed over night and became a drunk and constantly domestically abused her he would shake the sh*t out of her because he cant hit her lest she rings the cops on him. SHe claimed that the whole marriage was like a prison and she wanted to get free of it. The story obviously escalated to her wanting to run away from him and move to me because she was now in love with me and wanted to have my babies because we felt so right together. Now this was a shock to me because I suddenly thought whooaaaaa whats happening here Im not in love and Im certainly not ready for someoens wife to run from her matrimonial home in America, fly to UK and live with me just on a notion that we clicked on emails hence we will click physically and emotionally.

I dont know if i did wrong but I didnt want her to ad me to her list of he changed overnight boyfriends because we didnt really know each other outside of what we chose to write about each other. FOr christs sake I thought I knew er well in the sic months we talked I had no clue she was MRS SOMEONE so I realised she could hae ommited loads of other things too. Like maybe she was a golddigger marrying people for money or those serial brides who marry you, wipe your accounts and dissappear without even a divorce. So for me E-Dating isnt quite glamorous