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[iGuest]

I have the same situation. I am dating an 18 and I am 14. My parents get in the way and he gets mad but we realize that we really do like each other a lot and were not gonna let anything stand in our way. We meet through  a friend who was always tryin to get us together, we waited until we were both in high school. He is going off to college next year but that's next year! AGE DOESN'T MATTER!

[iGuest]

Me and my boyfriend are 2 1/2 years apart. I'm 15, about to turn 16, and he's 18. We have been dating on and off for almost a year and a half. Our problems have mostly been because of the age difference. He wants to join the military and start a family in the next 5 years, while I'm still a sophmore in high school. We love each other a lot, but I'm not quite ready to sign my life away. When we did break up I tried dating other guys closer to my age, but no one ever compared. I found myself compatable with a few but as young teen boys are, they aren't looking for a relationship, unless it is a sexual one. So, while I believe age does matter, I'm very happy with my older boyfriend.

[gisellebebegirl]

I do not think it really matters

i think what matters are maturity levels

if someone can keep up with me and can carry a conversation with me without annoying me to pieces

or me thnking omg ur so creepyishly old, then i will consider them

i dont base my decisions based on a number

if its meant to be.. ITS MEANT TO BE

[anwiii]

how do you know you love eachother? do you know what love is at such a young age? i doubt a 14 year old knows. second, when you turn 18, she'll only be 15. that's going to look bad on you....being a legal adult and with a 15 year old. where are her parents to protect against a relationship like this?!?!? this is an old thread so i am assuming you are 18 now. age NEVER matters where love is concerned....except for minors. the law will be on the side of the 15 or 16 year old.....and for good reason. i hope you know why laws are in place to protect minors. if not, you're just plain sick and need some help. if you can't wait 3 years to enter in to a normal relationship, then it wasn't worth having to begin with. think on that when you're sitting their confused for no good reason.

Burke, on Apr 8 2007, 07:16 PM, said:

Does age matter when you are in a relationship?
i am currently 17 and i am in a relationship with a 14 year old girl. there is only 3.5 years difference.. and we love each other. She is proabably more mature then i am, so does age really matter?

[iGuest]

umm noDoes Age Matter?

Okay. I'm 18 and my gf is 15 turning 16. Their is a little bit of an age difference. Their is not very much of a mature difference with us. You can laugh and have fun with what ever. But when serious topics come up we sit down and talk them out as best as we can. As for the sex aspect of it and statutory rape. If she really does care for you then she will stay with you without having sex, and vice versa. We were being intimate with one another at one point in time however, the parents found out and we were punished. Our time with one another was limited and it was hard for the first while not being able to see her. But after a while of not being intimate everything got much better. At a young age I have seen that sex clouds your mind and I am very thankful we got caught mostly because we see each other in a new light, a light that will go on for years and years to come. Through thick and thin. Thank you for listening.-reply by spawn

[kyrious]

i definitely think it's a puppy love all teenagers like you goes to this phase ..don't allow your self to be carried away ..you should both
concentrate on your study and if it is really true love then let destiny decides

[iGuest]

(sex) duz age matter Does Age Matter?Replying to velma.. Ryght ime 16 and my girlfrend is 15 and we love ethuther alot I love her that mutch I got her a ring and asked her to get ingayged to me and she sed yes ..Then she wanted to have sex ferthor on in the relationship I didnt no wat to do and wat to say soo we waited for a bit bare in mined she waz still 15 tutchng on 16 and she wanted to have a baby and I want a baby to we both share the same feeling,s and we both love ethuther very mutch all I want to fined out is ..Wat wold happen if she got pregnont at the age she is (15) and wud I get done and we both give consent to it and ime 16 ?-reply by chris

[tara]

at present it affect because she is now not totally matured so i want to give advice you that please wait for 5 more years when she get matured but you can maintain your relation.

[iAssistant]

Yes, age does matter, especially in that very young age. The girl is too young for that so you shouldn't bother her. Even if you claim that she is mature, it is still not acceptable for me. That young age is not yet capable of handling relationship.