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[Reekun]

This topic really hits home because a girl asked me out to Prom but she was a Senior and i'm a Sophomore so I had to say no, because you know sometimes people will just exploit you for their own personal gain and whatnot.

I wish, sometimes this world just hurts to be in it. From where I stand however, the right thing in your situation to do would be to intervene and explore the different routes you can take with this world, whether its to continue the relationship or to just let her go.

Because long distance relationships don't work and no guy will wait that long for a girl to be "of age" I suggest just letting her go because she's only 14 and she will fall in love with other people regardless if you let her go now.

Cheers mate, good luck with your love life, hee hee.

[iGuest]

I am turned 17 in december and my girlfriend turns 14 in june she is actually one of my best friends step sister... He dosent know yet. We plan on telling him when she becomes a freshman and I am a seinor because it is not as un common

her dad loves me like mad crazy so he wont care that I am dating his daughter

my friend falls asleep mad early so it is just me and her when I stay over..We don't do anyting bad..We both have the exact same relationship experience..Not very good

so I don't think that the age difference matters at all..Just people see it and are like woah but when you get older the age difference dosent mean jack ****...And a few arguments you can use is the average difference between husband and wife is 5 years.. And romeo and juliet have the same age differnce

so I hope that helped

[aloKNsh]

yes age matter in falling in love because if a boy is age of 25 and a girl is of 14 then looks very awkward to you both because people may pas comment to you both

[Polipop]

I think age isn't important when there's love. But I think it's important that both are mature, I mean, if you're 25 and she's 20, you both are grown up and so... But in this case, I think she's still a kid...

But well, you don't have to think the same... I'd tell you give it a try and time will tell =)

[iGuest]

Does Age MatterDoes Age Matter?

hey X

To Be Honest, I don't Think Age Matters At All,

Age Is Just A Number And If You Love Someone It Comes From The Heart

You Cant Change Your Feelings And If You Think The Relationship Is Worth It Then Carry On !

Who Is To Tell You What To Do , You Are The Only One Who Knows How You Feel 

Do What You Want And don't Worry What Other People Think !

xxx

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[eastofsorrow]

In my opinion, age differences, is a kind of subject which depends on your country and your culture. In some countries, it's Ok for a young girl to be around with an older guy or the exact opposite ( a younger boy with an older girl). So, sometimes it can be good but some times it may be bad and you may be rejected by the society surrounding you. But, personally speaking, If both girl and boy are over the legal age and they are both wise to understand the different aspects of their decision, it can be good.

[phpphp]

in most of the society girl with with bit older man not consider bad as you can seen in bollywood, hollywood movies. but old woman with boy consider odd and usually people laugh.

[mahesh2k]

Age doesn't matter. Do you have friends because of their age ? No. Do you love someone because of their age ? No. But if you answer yes to these questions. You're just another social-trend follower. You better feel good about yourself by following rules of society and start caring about what society and your peers think. Else follow what you think and then decide age really matters ?. We're not in friendship or in love as per guidelines of society. If anybody is doing that then they're bunch of sheeps following sheepdog. So better decide for yourself when it comes to point of age.

[akira550]

love is like a rosary that full of mystery.. that was the quote my mother always tell me when i ask about love...
i once in a situation that the girl is much older than me.. i am 17 and she is 19.. i ain't feel any differences.. we love each other
and she care for me.. so i must say that.. age doesn't matter when it comes to love.. you didn't know where... or to whom your heart
will beat... but one thing... sometimes those beats.. aren't true..

[fermin25]

Of course the age matters. Or you will can fall in love with a 90 years old woman or something for example. You need to meet the people and fall in love. In the most of cases the peoples who fall in love are of a close age. But the extremist like the Fundamentalist Mormons believe that the age doesn´t matters and they celebrate marriages between a 75 years old man and a 16 years old woman. That in the natural work is ridicoulus. And I don´t support this because it looks like a kidnapping or something like that I can´t explain that.

The age matters a lot. Don´t be a child.