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How Do You Know When You Don't Love A Person Anymore?
Started by keego, Jan 19 2008 09:25 AM
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#26
Posted 18 January 2010 - 01:00 PM
I know... if i don't give f*ck about her then i don't love some person anymore.
To my ex girlfriend, i said to her to stay friends, she didn't want to and she made a fool of me
)) So i don't give f*ck about her and i'm freaking her out everytime i see her
She is damn too stupid!
#27 Guest_Emily_*
Posted 18 March 2011 - 04:37 AM
Hey guys, okay so i have a boyfriend named Jessie and yes, we get into arguements but to the girls or boys out there, if you get into an arguement or fight, that means the relationship is going very well. You need to get into arguements or fights once in a while but if it's constantly happening, then you guys aren't ment to be.
My story is, my boyfriend and i, got into plenty of arguements in the past but now it's changed. we hardly talk anymore, we hardly see eachother or hang out and because of that, i'm loosing feelings for him. i asked a plenty of people and they would say "break up with him". i know other people's opinions don't matter to some of you but to me it does. (specific people only) Even one of his bestfriends told me to, and i think i am but i know it will also hurt his feelings so i don't know what to do anymore. Everytime i try to tell him he would get mad and just think of an excuse to say to me. For example "i'm busy" "i'm going out" "i'm going to my friends or cousins house", etc.
Can anyone help me ?
My story is, my boyfriend and i, got into plenty of arguements in the past but now it's changed. we hardly talk anymore, we hardly see eachother or hang out and because of that, i'm loosing feelings for him. i asked a plenty of people and they would say "break up with him". i know other people's opinions don't matter to some of you but to me it does. (specific people only) Even one of his bestfriends told me to, and i think i am but i know it will also hurt his feelings so i don't know what to do anymore. Everytime i try to tell him he would get mad and just think of an excuse to say to me. For example "i'm busy" "i'm going out" "i'm going to my friends or cousins house", etc.
Can anyone help me ?
#28
Posted 23 March 2011 - 07:29 AM
you both are in a relation so it sometimes happened but at the same time after a few time you have discuss over the matter what actually both of you want. please don't break up the relation instead of it tried to find out the best solution . because in love such kind of problem comes and its you both who have to solve it.
if we forget the person by heart then its mean that we don't love the person anymore but not by mind only heart because love start from heart not mind.
if we forget the person by heart then its mean that we don't love the person anymore but not by mind only heart because love start from heart not mind.
#29 Guest_Riverdance14_*
Posted 30 May 2011 - 02:37 AM
My boyfriend and I had the same problem. Our relationship was so perfect and then we'd argue over the stupidest stuff. I think the best thing to do is to not get upset, just to change the subject. Or you can pretend to cry, that makes guys feel really guilty and apologize. (Just kidding, you probably shouldn't do that.)
If you change the subject to something that's not about your day, something that he won't get bothered hearing about, then he won't mind listening. You can still tell your girlfriends and your family all about your day, or you can talk to him about it when he's in a really good mood and wants to hear about it.
About when you know you don't love someone anymore... You'll know. You'll wake up one morning, or be laying awake in bed one night thinking, and you'll realize that you can't see a future with this person anymore. You don't want to spend your life with them anymore -- because you don't love them. When this happens, believe me, you'll know.
If you change the subject to something that's not about your day, something that he won't get bothered hearing about, then he won't mind listening. You can still tell your girlfriends and your family all about your day, or you can talk to him about it when he's in a really good mood and wants to hear about it.
About when you know you don't love someone anymore... You'll know. You'll wake up one morning, or be laying awake in bed one night thinking, and you'll realize that you can't see a future with this person anymore. You don't want to spend your life with them anymore -- because you don't love them. When this happens, believe me, you'll know.
#30
Posted 04 August 2011 - 10:11 AM
You must learn to accept your differences, if you are not open to this idea, try to have a cool off and try to analyze your feelings. If you are enjoying your independence and do not miss him too much, maybe you don't love him anymore. If you learn that you still love him and he said that he really love you, you must talk on how to make your relationship work. Try to give and take, don't give up and adjusting to one another attitude is a process.
#31 Guest_Unknown_*
Posted 23 October 2011 - 12:56 AM
Someone please help me.. Im not sure what to do.. Everytime my spouse and I argue.. I feel like I should break up with her.. and i tried to break it to her.. But i dont have it in me to say officially "Its over" I feel like im somehow stuck on her.. Like im trapped, and don't want to leave her.. yet i now feel like im liking other girls.. But im jealous of her going to parties and dressing cute and sexy because I feel like someone is going to try to take her from me.. I know I should trust her.. But I had a different relationship where another girl dumped me for another guy. I guess i dont want that to happen to me again.. and aside to being taken away from me.. I dont want anything to happen to her.. Like someone possibly kidnapping her or something.. Where i live is kind of dangerous.. and she has had a time in her life where something like that happened to her (She was Assaulted..) I dont want something like that to happen to her again.. Leave me a message on my email.. Please.. I need all the help i can get.. because.. I dont know if I still love her or not..
09scarface1@gmail.com
09scarface1@gmail.com
#32 Guest_lilvelvet_*
Posted 31 December 2011 - 02:55 PM
pursue77, on 03 February 2008 - 03:21 PM, said:
Listen. Men usually gives excuses to girls when
they are very busy at the moment or they have been seeing other girls at the moment and one of their favorite excuses
is,
"Sorry, I am kinda busy this week."
Heck...I am a man and I use this excuse ALL THE TIME
to turn women down.
It's innocent and you can turn away a person without
hurting his or her feelings.
Here's the truth: If a man is REALLY attracted to
you, he WILL find SOME time to hang out with you no matter
how busy he is - even if it is just one hour a week.
The only reason he won't is because he doesn't
like you "enough".
Let's use YOU as an example...
If you were absolutely CRAZY about a guy, do you think
you could spare an hour of your busy schedule this week to
have a cup of coffee with her?
I bet the answer is "yes".
The same principle applies to men. If he loves
you "enough", he will make SOME time for you - it's
as simple as that. So try to raise the attraction by pulling back and getting back
again.
they are very busy at the moment or they have been seeing other girls at the moment and one of their favorite excuses
is,
"Sorry, I am kinda busy this week."
Heck...I am a man and I use this excuse ALL THE TIME
to turn women down.
It's innocent and you can turn away a person without
hurting his or her feelings.
Here's the truth: If a man is REALLY attracted to
you, he WILL find SOME time to hang out with you no matter
how busy he is - even if it is just one hour a week.
The only reason he won't is because he doesn't
like you "enough".
Let's use YOU as an example...
If you were absolutely CRAZY about a guy, do you think
you could spare an hour of your busy schedule this week to
have a cup of coffee with her?
I bet the answer is "yes".
The same principle applies to men. If he loves
you "enough", he will make SOME time for you - it's
as simple as that. So try to raise the attraction by pulling back and getting back
again.
Your above useful information is indeed short & brilliant, it cuts it finely & to the point.
My head is a mess at the moment & my feelings are confused. Ive been with my fella 4 years & to cut a long story short - We met eachother in 1985 and have been on & off over the years til 1998 then got back together in 2008, its a relationship by distance & he still lives under the same roof as his wife but sleeps separately, he has no relationship with her at all apart from his two children. We are in contact daily by text but lately for the last few months Ive been dithering about whether its working. A part of me feels we should have a break for a few months, another part of me feels we should split & the other part of me feels I should just ride it out.
To be honest, Ive had enough but still want him.
Your above quote is very true & to the point.
Thank you for your little bit of input.
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