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[somertonlord]

If you have met a guy you really like, you've come to the right place

Here are five tips on how to impress a guy

1.Don't throw yourself at the guy, just say hi and engage in conversation.
2.Don't be nervous just talk to the guy like you already know him.
3.Tell the guy a bit about yourself.
4.find out a bit about what he likes and talk about it for a bit.
5.when you have finished talking just say bye/see you later or if you are a slang kid say ''safe''.

Never give him your phone number unless he asks for it or you know him well enough to know he wants it and don't chat to him every minute or so because boys need their space.

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[t3jem]

I'd just like to add a few tips

If you do call the guy, don't talk for hours on end if he doesn't talk much, I honestly get very bored with it and a 20 minute conversation is waay too long for me; however, talking in person is great.

Have fun when your around him, you don't want to be in a relationship that isn't fun.

Respect his space, let him have time to do the stuff he needs to do

As a guy, I must say the biggest turnoff is a clingy and controlling girlfriend, I need my space and I need to be able to do what I need to do without the 20 questions.

And the #1 rule is trust the guy unless he gives you a reason not to trust him

[Thingcubed]

Well, from personal experience as a guy, I respect a woman who is more independent. My best relationships have been with people like that, and my worst relationships are with people who say things like "I'll do anything for you." If you truly love someone, the anything phrase is alright sometimes, but definitely not if it's a highschool relationship that's been going for less than a month (which happened to me).

Also... I'm not sure about that "safe" thing. It's a bit... dated. I don't think I've heard anyone use it recently.

[somertonlord]

Thingcubed, on Feb 15 2008, 10:27 PM, said:

Well, from personal experience as a guy, I respect a woman who is more independent. My best relationships have been with people like that, and my worst relationships are with people who say things like "I'll do anything for you." If you truly love someone, the anything phrase is alright sometimes, but definitely not if it's a highschool relationship that's been going for less than a month (which happened to me).

Also... I'm not sure about that "safe" thing. It's a bit... dated. I don't think I've heard anyone use it recently.

''Everybody in my school says it.

Edited by somertonlord, 16 February 2008 - 12:12 PM.

[etycto]

somertonlord, on Feb 15 2008, 08:54 AM, said:

If you have met a guy you really like, you've come to the right place

Here are five tips on how to impress a guy

1.Don't throw yourself at the guy, just say hi and engage in conversation.
2.Don't be nervous just talk to the guy like you already know him.
3.Tell the guy a bit about yourself.
4.find out a bit about what he likes and talk about it for a bit.
5.when you have finished talking just say bye/see you later or if you are a slang kid say ''safe''.

Never give him your phone number unless he asks for it or you know him well enough to know he wants it and don't chat to him every minute or so because boys need their space.

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1.agree if you do throw yourself at us we'll think your a horlet and i personaly would keep away.
2.i never realy notice nervousness unless the person stutterts alot and or reapeat something abunch of time if you think you would get nerveous when trying to impress a guy just reherst what your going to say but make sure it sounds natural (but most guy would feel arogent if they felt that a girl was nervous to talk to them)
3.you have to tell them about yourself but nerver let that be the begining of the making it seem like you guys like exactly the same things most guys including myself finds that kinda of creepy(you know to date yourself)
5.saying good bye should not happen untill you have to leave or they have to but make sure it's not beacause of a strange auckword silence.

yah dont give your phone number unless he asks for it beacause he wants to keep in touch

[iGuest]

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How To Impress A Guy

If yo really want to impress us, try to be bubbly. Act like you enjoy being around us. If we are on the phone and don't talk or respond very much wrap up what you have to say. When you ramble on and on it is a serious turn off.If you are playing a sport with us don't try to let us win all the time. If we are hanging with our guy friends, DO NOT pull us away unless it is important. That turns off us and our friends. Mostly just be your self.

[sonesay]

somertonlord, on Feb 16 2008, 12:54 AM, said:

If you have met a guy you really like, you've come to the right place

Here are five tips on how to impress a guy

1.Don't throw yourself at the guy, just say hi and engage in conversation.
2.Don't be nervous just talk to the guy like you already know him.
3.Tell the guy a bit about yourself.
4.find out a bit about what he likes and talk about it for a bit.
5.when you have finished talking just say bye/see you later or if you are a slang kid say ''safe''.

Never give him your phone number unless he asks for it or you know him well enough to know he wants it and don't chat to him every minute or so because boys need their space.

I have to disagree with number 1. I know for a fact if a girl throws herself on me I cannot resist. Guys are weak to their sexual urges so if you are super hot it will be a lot easier to get guys. Dress to impress. If you are wearing cloths that make you look unsexy then you lower your chances of guys noticing you. Most times guys will be shy just like you probably are so just make the first move, Saying Hi can be enough to get the ball rolling. You will never know if you don't take a chance right? Keep the conversation simple, threes been many times where I've gotten hints from girls but I'm too slow to follow lol, After they are gone I finally click but its too late. If your interested make sure he knows.

[iGuest]

How to Impress a MALE!
How To Impress A Guy

Imm a femallee.
Of course. =]

And I use to never get any guy in my bed. Than I relizedd. What am I doing wrong? I make my self looking goood. I'm bubbly. Not too clingy. Smiles.. Flirts.. D size boobs. With a slim body and bubble butt haha but I never had my breats out for guys to see or anything. So instead they always go for the girls with their nipple nearly showing and a dress so wen they bend over yuu can see their undies. I don't want to lower my slef down. But is that the only way?

Please help.

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[iGuest]

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Hey um you sound kind of the same guy I am trying to impress,Can I ask you what is your horoscope and maybe you could give me more tips please since you are a guy yourself :-)

[iGuest]

I've been talking to a guy recently but I've known him since last year. He asked for my phone number a couple of days ago but I don't know if he's interested. How can I tell?Also, when I get really nervous, I start texting on my phone. I know it's rude but I can't help it. Do guys get annoyed of girls texting when they're trying to have a conversation with them?

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