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[sheepdog]

LOL! Gee guys, what ever happened to knowing how to cook and being able to field dress and finish cutting up a deer, and scalling and filleting fish???? Those true measures of a womans worth! All this stuff about being "bubbly" and knowing how to look and talk and dress ain't gonna fill your belly.

[iGuest]

Seems like it will be a lucky girl who gets you! It's nice to know there are still some gentlemen out there who respect girls /txtmngr/images/smileys/smiley1.Gif

-reply by Shy_Girl

 

[iGuest]

What if he already had your number from outstanding circumstances and would in the beginning text you periodically, supposedly by mistake... Then what? Like a few times he mistakenly sent me messages to go to the club or drag racing. Initially when I asked he said that he knows a guy with a similar last name and when he typed it in mines came up. Afterwards, once we were properly acquainted he would text me starting conversation and just to see what I may have been doing at the time. Now, we talk like every night... And I honestly don't usually start the conversation. But now it feels its sexual and we haven't done anything as yet... So where do I go from here. Oris this it, is this his intentions... To hit and run?I'm confused and want to know so I can cut him off if this is all he wants.

[iGuest]

yeah. no.How To Impress A Guy

never say "safe". He would probably look at you like your stupid. :/ I have NEVER heard that and odds are he hasn't either. Just say something like "see ya later" or "bye" then give a cute smile & walk away. :)

-reply by yiggity yo.

[iGuest]

I'm in college 21 and I like a dude in my math class. Hes 32 spent 10 years in the Army and is going to school for nursing odd thing is hes a buff, built, almost to die for hispanic man with tattoos, OMG... Amazing. I knew since the first day that I liked him and after a few days I realized that he liked me too because when we would leave school we would drive to leave the same way and make intentional eye to eye. ( basically he was checking me out) well I was too nervous to talk to him so one friday I got all dolled up and he noticed me and when we were leaving school, we both take the stairwell alone, he called me doll when I held the door for him. Well I found him on myspace and I sent him a message on vday lol coincidently ,and he told me that yes we had math together and that I looked beautiful on friday. I was tickled pink. And We talked for a while on msgr and we found out we had alotttt in common. Well we decided to meet the next school day at subway for lunch, but I was soooo nervous I flet clammed up, so it was awkward I guess. Well after class I had an apt to go to but an hr to wait so he asked me if I wanted to hang out. I said ok and I got in his car and we went to the mall and looked around a bit then he drove me back and open close the door for me etc. Real gentlemen like. Well he hit me up on msgr and said he wanted to tell me something and then I was like what? he said I wanted to kiss u but I didnt want to scare you away so I was like awww. So we met the next day. We were supposed to get lunch at a steakhouse, and I got super dolled up but I got a msg from him sayin his son was sick in school etc and " the dog catcher" had his dog lol???? I was like okkkk but he still didnt stand me up he met me, but just went to subway. We chatted a bit and he played with my big toe lol cuz I was wearing sandals and put my feet up next to him. Lol he was leaving for cali on weds but he met me cuz I wanted to see him before he left. Well that night we talked and I asked him why he didnt to to kiss me and he said cuz he didnt think I wanted to, so we planned the next day at school to kiss. So, I waited for him and I found him but he didnt park near me to kiss me before class he parked in a different section and just went to class, he said that he showed up 15 mins prior and I wasnt there so he went to class, but after class we walked to his car and he just drove me to my car and we kissed. And it was amazing... He left that evening to go to cali his flight left after school. Ive msgd him on msgr but I havent heard ANYTHINg from him since hes left. And Ive left him msgs... Even tho he has his msgr on his celll, he is always on, why didnt he atleast say hello????? its been 2 days since he left. I'm sad, is this his vacay time with his family that he doesnt want to talk to me cuz hes seen me all week???? I miss him ALOTTTTT.. AND I'm SCARED. I just want him to talk to me and tell me something. Atleast hello ya know. He comes home on tues just 4 more days.But I see him weds at school. Problem is I am in the midst of divorcing and I have a son and I still live w my x hubby so am I scaring him away maybe. Ive told him I'm looking for a new place to live etc and I keep rambling on about all these things moving to another state lol, movingfar away maybe not coming back nex semester to the same college etc. But last time we talked talked I said look I really wanna see something work between us, and I wont move for you. And he said ok we will see what happens. I know he likes me, but am I doing to much. I need advice. Is he just wanting his vacay time and thats why hes not talking now?????? HELPPP

-reply by Maria

[iGuest]

Replying to t3jemWell I'm scared to talk to him I never get the chance to talk to him and he has the same problemHe never gets the chance to talk to meAll of our friends get in the way

[suzane]

Silence is having many of the unspoken words. Many times the speechless affection offers better and smarter impressions. If you are planning to impress a guy without speaking, you can do it just by your natural gestures and behaviors. The very first requirement is to offer killing smile to the guy. Also the simple touch and adjusting with the wish of guy are the most important needs to impress a guy. Guys always like the girls that get merged with them and follow them. Have a passionate touch and affectionate approach with him and he will not only get impressed but also will get habitual of you. Perform the best and get the best.

[aaronrockies]

Be yourself, for a first meeting I kind of favor meeting for coffee or lunch. Something that leaves us both with an option to spend a bit more time talking if we care to and not feel trapped by something more formal, that can come later if there is a point to it.

Myself I don`t care how you are dressed, what you wear. It depends on the day and season a bit but fashion means nothing to me, cover what needs to be covered and be comfortable, clothes don`t impress me.

I am older, so this is very important to me, show some intelligence, show me your not just another party girl looking for a life support system, a retirement plan because you made none of your own. I don`t need or want more baggage to carry no matter how good it looks.