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[iGuest]

How do you know when a girl likes you?How To Impress A Girl.

so how do you know when a girl likes you, whats the difference between a casual but usual flirt and something else that says something more. Some girls just flirt with anyone and everyone, so what other signs are there that a girl is interested in you. I'm looking for even the smallest gestures of interest. I just don't know how a girl hints that she's interested. Hopefully a girl will chime in with a nice list. Thanks

-question by irving

 

[novic_1223]

well it sounds like you are having problems noticing some really simple fitures of a female. first of all you should be able to tell if a female likes you by the way she acts around you(is she's not hiding her feelings). her body language can tell a lot as in for instance the way she sits ...is she pointing towards you.does she lean towards you.does she smile nonstop when she sees you.does she laugh for anything that you say or does she try to always get close to you.then if even one of these are correct they may be something there...even if none of these are correct then they still might be soemthing there becasue people do know how to hide there feelings and us as men sometimes dont bother looking hard enough

Edited by novic_1223, 19 February 2009 - 05:55 AM.

[Running With Scissors]

Everyone is different but some main ones are 1.If they laugh at things that aren't funny when you say them. 2.They smile when they talk to you. 3.Some play with there hair while talking to you. There are tons of other things and if they don't do those things it doesn't mean they don't like you because everyone has a different way of showing someone they like you. Hope this helps.

[novoAlias]

What you're looking for are known in certain circles as IOI's (Indicators of interest)

Here are some:
If she plays with her hair, IOI.
If she leans into you IOI.
If she is holding your hand in a crowd and when you squeese she squeeses back/
If she looks at you twice and then brushes up accidently against you while she is pushing / fighting her way to get to the bar (in a crowded venue), it's so on.

Playing with hair
Looking at your lips
Open arms
Open Palms
Touching herself.. (brushing her clothes, straightening them etc…)
Tilting her head when speaking
Posture is facing towards you instead of away
Smile’s a lot while your talking
Laughs at jokes that aren’t that funny
Ask you questions about things you may have said previously in conversation.

I know what it's like, if a girl is into you are always the last to know... Heres a fun gambit.
IF you are deep in conversation and shes doing the above^ say 'do you want to kiss me?'
THIS IS WIN WIN WIN

If she says yes: you kiss her.
If she says maybe: you say lets find out, and kiss her.
If she says no: say "I didn't say you could, it just looked like there was something on your mind"

Also if she says no it doesnt mean the game is over, it probably just means you're not quite there yet.

[chaos3932]

For me it's a good sign if she defends you alot when people tease or pick at you. Often when your in your social groups and such.

I think that if she is also very interested in what you have to say and often wants to be around or near you it can be very obvious.

Some of the more attractive girls especially the predominantly flirty ones are considerably more standoffish. If you show too much interest in them you could put them off easily. So its more of a fish and bait game with those types. You have to first establish a close friendship then slowly approach them with the idea of dating.

Most of the time you really have to get to know the girl and establish a close relationship before they are willing to even consider a date.

[iGuest]

how shall i say a girl i love you.How do you know when a girl likes you?

hi I love a girl. She was studing with me in school, now after 10 year we meet. At auto stand she is in hurry to her job. That time I am not able to ask a single word then only hi & how r u? but after 2 month I meet her again & with crough I ask her other details how she is how is her family & take her no also. On next day I call her on her cell flirt with her talk with her over 20 min. I also ask did she has any boy friend she said no I told her think about me she replied sure. & ask me we require to meet any day what should I do to get closer to her first & then propose her letter?

Please help me?

Thank you from my soul in advance!

-question by Rahul

[iGuest]

how do I win over this girl?How do you know when a girl likes you?hey people, I'm a first timer at this but I really need help. There's this girl I've know for three months and I've seen her and me together since I met her. Shes shown I think a couple signs of her liking me but shes really shy and hard to read. I've taken her to my schools homecoming dance and me and her had a good time and ever since then I've been losing sleep over her. I'm still not sure she care's but I want to find out, how do I give her some hints without "throwing all my cards on the table" and telling her I love her.-question by Hank Williams Sr.

[iGuest]

Can any of the girls try to give me any advice?How do you know when a girl likes you?I'm in 7th grade and 2 girls might like me but I Cant tell but the one girl Dana when I'm not looking she she always goes into sort of a daze and smiles when I turn around or look up she stops smiling then starts sort of biting her lip and twisting her hair around her two fingers and then the other girl Emily I only see her in the hallways but whenever I do she's about 50 feet behind me then she starts running when she see's that I saw her and then stops when she's right next to me and in math class everyday she always stares at me while smiling and then when I look up I see her then I start smiling then after a minute we both start laughing and when they see each other if I say hi or hey to the one or the other the one that I did'nt say hi to they pretend to get mad at me and then 20 seconds later after I sit down the one that was "mad" at me is staring at me and they both know that they both like me WHAT DO I DO?-question by Clayton Rickard 3rd

[Unknown_99]

You will know if a girl is interested in you if she likes being around you, likes to look on you or at times when your eyes meet hers she suddenly smiles or blushes. There are several signs but its totally dependent on the type of girl you are dating. Some girls do prefer for you to approach them first and it becomes a problem when both sides are shy hehe. Nobody knows who should express their feelings first XD.

[inverse_bloom]

Usually i think eye contact plays a big part in being able to tell. If you look into each others eyes, i don't think you need to be a talented mind reader to begin getting an idea.

Usually i will refrain myself from making any such judgments too quickly because I'm always cautious not to give unwanted attention.