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[AliceInWonderland]

Okay, I'm a girl in 7th grade so I'll help you out with some advice. Here are some ways to tell if a girl likes you:

•This is the most obvious one: she tells you she likes you.
-Well duh. She likes you.

•She touches you somehow, it can even be an innocent brush on the shoulder. Most girls like to make themselves seen, I know I do.

•She flirts a lot with you. Touching, complimenting, joking, laughing at totally not funny things... These are all good signs.

•She stares at you. Okay, not many girls do this because lots of guys do this to us so we find it kind of creepy, but it happens sometimes. But also, she could just be in a daze.

•She crosses a crowded room just to talk to you. This depends if she's in a good mood or not. If she's mad, that probably not very good...

•She smiles a lot at you. Smiling is a good thing because most girls I know, which includes me, do not smile at boys unless they are our boyfriends or you made us laugh. Most girls just don't smile at boys for no reason, unless they are like high on something.


BAD SIGNS
These are some bad things to watch out for.

•Mean remarks about you.

•Her yelling or raising her voice at you.

•Her punching or kicking you.

•Her telling you she hates you.

•Her ignoring you.

Hope that helps!

[firesnow]

The original topic starter probably won't need this anymore, but I thought I'd post here anyway, in case someone else is looking at the topic for help.
People already pointed out how you could find the more common hints of a girl liking a guy, such as smiling a lot, staring, finding opportunities to get closer/talk, etc. But some girls are more reserved/weird/complicated/confusing.

• The girl usually talks to you normally and you're good friends and whatnot. Then, once in a while, she'll kind of ignore you, or quickly glance away when you make eye contact. And later on, it'll be normal again.
  She may have thought about the possibility of liking you and is in denial, or thinks it wouldn't be good for her to like you, so she tries to avoid you for a while. That, or her friends told her something awkward. hahaha.
  
• She gives you several nicknames that are closer to the joking side than the insulting side.
  This hint is kind of weak, since people often give nicknames to others regardless of whether they're interested in the person romantically or not. Still, I have noticed that girls tend to like giving nicknames to guys they like more often than they do for other people (with the exception of close friends).
  
• When she asks you if you're going somewhere/doing something/etc, she almost always asks you after asking someone else. Or at least, she'll usually ask someone else as well.
  She might do this because they are trying not to make it obvious that they're interested in whether or not you're going to an event.
  
• Sometimes when you talk to her, she looks away or looks down. She doesn't have too many problems looking directly at other people.
  She's shy and doesn't want you to know she likes you. She's afraid she'd blush or her eyes would dilate if she looked directly at you.
  
• When she's talking to other guys, she'll glance at you often.
  Probably afraid that you would misinterpret her relationship to this guy.
  
• Talks about her other guy friends when you're around, but she makes sure to mention that she isn't interested in a relationship with her other male friends.
  She wants to see your reaction. To see if you get jealous or not. But she also wants to let you know that she doesn't like the other guy. Yeah, this is kind of a jerkface move.

I'm not really sure how common or valid any of those hints are. However, I can say that those are signs I noticed in myself when I like someone. Then again, that might just be me. I don't know, but I hope it helps.