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[anwiii]

you're being biased in your own advice compared to your own experiences. she already stated that whatever he says he doesn't take seriously. there is no communication. there is no relationship. there is love....and there is love at one's conveniance. let the guy suffer in this instance because the woman here deserves a lot more.....

unwanted_flower, on Jan 16 2010, 10:53 PM, said:

i am not one offer advice in this department o going tell you my gut .
i would call him and discuss all options with him .
discuss everything with him and if and i mean if ,does not sound like he is committed then dump his rear end ,for your own peace of mind .
sometimes guys are just plain jerks and not grown up to make a commitment like we women want in life .

[unwanted_flower]

oh finial you find one woman that may deserve a lot more that is a bonus in your male pride anwiii i see .

communication is a must ,stubbornness should never be a issue on who will call first or how many times .

when love someone ,allow them to know it and never give up .

as for my own issues ,I think I answered my own problems in writing advice to other people .

how about you anwiii ,how is your heart a mess i assume .

try communicating never ignore not when there is love .

[anwiii]

stop playing games and be honest with eachother. be truthfull and go your seperate ways.....

[Me_89]

Errrrr

Anyway..

He sent me a text today. It said:

U didnt even have a sense of decency to at least tell me why u broke up with me, ur just a coward and u have shown me that i really dont need u. thanks for making this very easy on me, i really do appreciate it, dont think ill be missing you one bit. good luck on ur quest for the perfect man, im sure he will appear out of the mist on his horse holding his golden sword to protect u from bad men like me. u have major problems.

I didnt reply.

He is right about the decency thing..about not telling him why, but theres no need to tell me i have major problems. Hes so rude.

So do u guys stil think i should talk to him or should i just leave it?

[Zagubadu·]

It sounds as if he just really wanted to be with you. ( Thats why he was all caring and stuff. ) But now that he is actually with you he thinks he doesn't need to do all that stuff anymore.
Just read the most recent post, glad you broke up with him. He seems very neglectful. Find someone else who will truly appreciate you.

Edited by Zagubadu·, 17 January 2010 - 09:32 PM.

[sweetmew]

funny to find such a topical issue of 2010...