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[contactskn]

Dear friends I always wondered is it really necessary forhumans to have partners or not. I mean to say companions for life. Many of myfriends are still not married and decided to be alone for life. They have theirown reasons for being in this situation and have their own explanations for thesame. But frankly speaking I was never satisfied with their arguments for thesame. Any of my friends over here think that companionship is not at allnecessary for a human in this world. I think that one should have as many goodfriends as they can and obviously a life partner too.  So friends please do post over here with yourthoughts on companionship and life without it. Thanks for sharing with yourthoughts in advance.

Edited by contactskn, 23 January 2010 - 10:11 AM.

[Zagubadu·]

I could never bear the though of living my whole life without ever finding someone to live that life with. I don't know how your friends can simply accept that. Do they specify their reasoning any further? Or is it just like that.

[contactskn]

Zagubadu·, on Jan 23 2010, 11:20 AM, said:

I could never bear the though of living my whole life without ever finding someone to live that life with. I don't know how your friends can simply accept that. Do they specify their reasoning any further? Or is it just like that.

Dear friend their reasoning are really different from eachother one of them who is a lady about 10 years older than me is an advocate andnarrated her story something like that in her childhood she was a homely childand all the members of her family loved her very much and same was with her.When she became young she had many friends including both boys and girls. Buther parents never liked her friendship with boys and because of that she wasalways tensed and started remaining alone slowly and slowly and at such a timeher pass time was her religious books. One day her father passed away andslowly the family atmosphere started changing and it became very difficult forher to stay with her mother and brothers and she decided to stay all alone.Again she became inclined to her religious books. Some people came forward tomarry her also but all of them were about the same thought that marriage shouldbe conducted by your brothers and mother only. But the family members were notready for the same they actually were like ashamed to even accept that she wasa part of that family. After a long time a man came forward to marry her shewas of the same community of which she was, he said that he loved her sincemany years but was not able to say that. But now he came forward with his viewsfor her. But she was not able to accept that proposal the reason for which wasso unique that even you will be amazed to here and it was that in her communitysome highly religious people were such that they never used scissors or bladeon their face or head, I mean to say they never shave and get a hair cut. But theperson who came forward with the marriage proposal was of a nature who didn’tbelieved or I should say followed this concept of their community and usedscissors to cut his beard etc. Just because of that reason she refused thatrelation and still she is alone and not having any good companion even. Even Ihave tried to convince her many times but it was of no use. I don’t know whyshe is spoiling her life and living all alone.

[mra550]

well it depends my friend but choosing to be alone is a good decision if you don't want to get married well atleast you have God to be with so you are not alone (michael jackson) and I think companionship is also recommended and choosing
the right partner for us is always the best because we can have people in our life to be with us forever until death
so we won't be lonely a partner where we can say our problems and lean in his/her shoulder btw having children is
also nice

[evilsmiley25]

Well, I am sure they have their reasons.

For me though, I would not want to be alone my whole life.
I couldn't imagine going all my life never having kids, or getting married. That is just how I am though.

I don't know how they could feel that way about marriage. I would hate to be lonely.

Marriage does not always work out though. A lot of people end up getting divorced. So marriage just does not work for everyone, maybe it does not work for them. They may just be happy how they are now, and might not be happy married.

[aurocks]

I would agree with Zagu.

I would probably be a really sad individual if I never found someone.

[unwanted_flower]

i couldn't ever think about ,living rest of my life without sharing it with someone by my side .
those small precious moments that happen ,you want share them with someone close and dear to you .

becomes your best friend in life ,facing many bad things and many many great things together ,holding each other' hands through areas that ,has brought down tears in life .

building motivation and inspiration in each other as you share your life with that special someone .
i just wouldn't want ,take each day ,alone in this world ,without sharing everything with that special someone .

yes we can have many amazing friends at same time does not compare to that special someone ,that you know ,you want spend ,your life by their side .

To reach for you in middle night when you awaken from a dream ,to feel simple touch of your feet ,touching each other ,to catch a smile ,slither across their face ,to catch a giggle from each other ,to hold each other as you watch the stars ,to do small things that you know ,would make the other happy ,there is so much much more in sharing your life with that special one ,for rest your lives ,that makes ,life just that much more happier to wake up each morning ,knowing you have each other .

so some people ,might enjoy life ,living alone .
i for one would not be one those .

[contactskn]

unwanted_flower, on Jan 25 2010, 02:27 AM, said:

i couldn't ever think about ,living rest of my life without sharing it with someone by my side .
those small precious moments that happen ,you want share them with someone close and dear to you .

becomes your best friend in life ,facing many bad things and many many great things together ,holding each other' hands through areas that ,has brought down tears in life .

building motivation and inspiration in each other as you share your life with that special someone .
i just wouldn't want ,take each day ,alone in this world ,without sharing everything with that special someone .

yes we can have many amazing friends at same time does not compare to that special someone ,that you know ,you want spend ,your life by their side .

To reach for you in middle night when you awaken from a dream ,to feel simple touch of your feet ,touching each other ,to catch a smile ,slither across their face ,to catch a giggle from each other ,to hold each other as you watch the stars ,to do small things that you know ,would make the other happy ,there is so much much more in sharing your life with that special one ,for rest your lives ,that makes ,life just that much more happier to wake up each morning ,knowing you have each other .

so some people ,might enjoy life ,living alone .
i for one would not be one those .

Dear friend I really am impressed with the detailed note onsmall things which are really important in any good relation with your specialones. I should add here that you are really inclined to wards the importanceand minuteness of good relations and you know how to carry with it. Yourdescription is really touching. As I read it I am really missing my special oneright now.

But dear friend on the other hand I don’t know why many ofthem don’t want to understand the importance of these small things and arechoosing to live all alone in my circle I know some of them who has decided tolive alone and continuing with the same decision still. We have tried manytimes to change their minds and change their thoughts to the other side butunfortunately all was of no use.

[legend112]

Yea you definitely need someone to share special moments with.

Life has more meaning when you're in a relationship with someone who loves you.

especially if they are understanding and you go throw thick and thin together, will will only add even more love.



Yea you definitely need someone to share special moments with.

Life has more meaning when you're in a relationship with someone who loves you.

especially if they are understanding and you go throw thick and thin together, will will only add even more love.

[contactskn]

legend112, on Jan 25 2010, 09:46 AM, said:

Yea you definitely need someone to share special moments with.

Life has more meaning when you're in a relationship with someone who loves you.

especially if they are understanding and you go throw thick and thin together, will will only add even more love.



Yea you definitely need someone to share special moments with.

Life has more meaning when you're in a relationship with someone who loves you.

especially if they are understanding and you go throw thick and thin together, will will only add even more love.

Dear friend of mine you are absolutely correct saying that Life has more meaning when we're in a relationship with someone who loves us. How correct and realistic it is to say so. Then my only doubt is why people who don't want any companions are able to understand this secret of happy life. God knows.