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[FiReStOrM]

Wats the worst experience u have had in ur life? mine was when i was in college , i had badly failed my exams .. with complete failure everywhere have u had any???

[Caveman]

Hmmm...well...one time, I was watching an ex-girlfriend's field hockey game, and when halftime came along, I thought it would be a good time to go on over and have a little chit chat. Of course, the halftime lasted several seconds, and before I knew it, they were back on the field in formation. Still, my conscience told me to run over, and just before they were about to play, I got to her (which was right smack dab in the center of the field!)...

All I remember was a lot of laughing and the referee telling me to leave. I got teased about it for months

Embarrassing stuff, hehe...

[Peaktao]

Ahh..how sweet, Caveman.

I don't really particularly has one...coz..I tend to forget bad things which happened after a while...

But as a whole, I think my life was at its worst when I was in primary school.
I was in this school which praises 'beautiful and rich girls with posh family names'.
School teachers loved them very much.(well, I was in all-girl school).

So any normal girls like me never had any chance of doing anything...and sometimes even got looked down on. (although I'm from an average family) I remember all those girls coming to school every day with new toys/school bags etc. ...and saying 'I'm so rich' etc. It was a horrible experience.

Well, I 'm glad I left it early enough... my cousin who continued had so much problems afterwards as her friends went on drugs, then excluded her out of the group as she didn't go out and take drugs with them.

[Dawid]

Mine was in my second year of university and i was really drunk and had some other substances in me and was going strong with an awesome girl but had cheated on her on a frequent basis. In my intoxicated state I decided to send my one friend a text message saying "Sup chris- was with different chic last night, havnt told hayley and don't intend to". What I didn't realise is that I actually sent it to hayley! Minutes later I received that exact message except from hayley. I have never ever ever had a panic like that. Just talking about it now is making my heart beat faster. I remember upon receiving that message I burst the biggest sweat of my life. Somehow, don't ask me why, she forgave me my of my sins(even after trying to play it out as if I was kidding around with her...).

[Metal Gear Brett]

I've been in three wrecks, and haven't got hurt so far. Guess I'm blessed.

I've had worse experiences... Maybe they'll come to me later.

[thebluekirby]

i've have bad experiances, but most of them aren't emarrising.
I found this lump in my leg and my mom took me to the doctor. They had no clue what it was until i got surgery. Then they figured out it was a tumor and that I had a cancer called "synovial sarcoma". But it's all gone now, they were able to remove the tumor and cancer cells. But I have to go on crutches. And I'm still on them. It was my worse experiance

[talbotda13]

Mine was probably the time i bounced off a church. i broke my arm them it was when i was probably 13. but i got teased for years about hitting a full church while i was on my bicycle

[Chatz]

My worst experience was back when i was 11.Around my house alot of kids had bycicles in that time.I always rode my bycicle up and doing tricks showing off untill oneday....I was riding down a long hill qute fast and suddenly as i was about to trun the coner fast my steering bar broke..i was trying to trun with the steering bar in my hand but because it was broken i couldnt trun and so i ran into a wall..had a few cuts and bursies after hitting the wall.

[conret]

I consider myself lucky but there have been accretions were I was latterly about to die here is one:
In our town there is a street that is very steep and is very long. So what me and my friends usually do is we ride up the hill which takes about 20 minutes and ride down along the sidewalk. On one occasion I starting riding down and just when my bike started building serious speed a lady in a wheelchair comes right in front of me and I know there is no way in the world I can stop my bike in time so I turned to the street almost falling over attempting so and just when I am in the street a car comes in front of me I manage to dodge it and at that exact time I looked back in relief another car comes at me 25 miles per hour and hits me in back of my bike throwing me off it, when I got up I looked back and I saw the car was messed up and it was one of those expensive Cadillac's and my bike was trashed so I figured I should run before people come and I end up paying 25 thousand for the car so I ran. I told my mom my bike was stolen in the park when I was playing basketball, of course she got mad at me and 2 days later I figured out the Cadillac was stolen so I basically saved someone's car. But until today I get shivers thinking about it.

Edited by conret, 23 July 2006 - 04:06 AM.

[sexymama1723]

Being molested and phsically abused and raped has to be the worst experience yet in my life.

[mc05w37]

my worst experience is seeing my girlfriend walking while holding hand with a son of *beef* guy (she left me after that).

[csp4.0]

mine would be when I was in charge of looking after the class's computers, I forgot to turn them off and one of them overheated and some cables burned out, the teacher knew I would never do something like this and so blamed it on another student. I was so sad... that I framed another person

[iGuest]

Well I had been saving my virginity forever avoiding sex at all cost and I finally found a guy that I really liked so I gave myself to him not only did I lose my virginity but I got pregnant and contracted HIV..... true story.... I know

-ryan

[ZaM0]

I had the worst experience, when we had a guest, I tried to bring him a coffee, but I turned it on the table . But maybe some exams from the previews grade made me feel worse haha I got success, but the stress gets me away

Edited by ZaM0, 01 November 2007 - 07:09 PM.

[JasperIk]

The whole experience with my grandma dying of cancer was hard, I wasn't the one dying, but to watch someone you care a lot about dying, is very hard on your spirit.

Then being told you have something also sucks, it makes you want to crawl in a hole and die, or live to be left alone.

Other than those things, I have had embarassing things happen to me, but for the most part they are just silly oh my gosh i can't believe i just said/did that things.

[nol]

The worst feeling to me, wasn't being shot, but more watching your best friend get shot in the back of the head and knowing that you could have done something to help him after he was there for you your whole life. Thats the worst experience I've had. You know sure, you can say it about you that you wouldn't care if somebody got shot and bled until he died or shot in the heart and died, but it really hurts to actually know the person. To actually acknowledge that hes gone and no more memories with him can be made, and then actually knowing who killed him is even worse because you know you want to get back at him, but then when you think about it for a minute or so you realize what will it do. I hear people tell me, you'll find another friend like him, but its not true, you'll never find that friend that stuck with you from kindergarten, or in my case since we were about 4. Those memories don't leave you, their the type of thing that you never forget that day, its like 9/11. Most people know exactly what they were doing that day, exactly, and where they were when they found out. I remember it just like it happened today, and even now, i turn back in my seat sometimes and say hey jorden look at that, or something like that and then it hits me, hes not there anymore.

Although I didn't realize what just happened until like 3 days later, when i didn't see him at school and it hit me that he wasn't here anymore, and he never will be there. I don't think anything else can make me feel worse then I did that day, or even week. Its like you just want to be alone and people are trying to be there for you. You don't want them to be but then again you do because you know they feel a loss, but not as big of one as you feel.

My second worse experience was feeling alone, without anybody when I left my girlfriend after getting her pregnant just last year. I felt so bad for 3 months, I eventually came back, but it was the second worse feeling I've ever had.

[krazygoddess]

sexymama1723, on Aug 2 2006, 09:36 PM, said:

Being molested and phsically abused and raped has to be the worst experience yet in my life.

I have to agree with sexymama as I was also sexually molested by my moms second husband, my brothers father. That is by far (i believe) one of the worst expierences a person has to go through, it is something you can never really get over, those memories are with you always, you may not think about it often but its there forever.

[cadastro]

My worst experience in life and still experiencing it actually presently, is my wife not talking to me... for the last seven years!

[OpaQue]

cadastro, on Jan 19 2008, 01:06 PM, said:

My worst experience in life and still experiencing it actually presently, is my wife not talking to me... for the last seven years!

We are talking about Worst experiences here.. And the statement you have put above, I feel most would categorize it under "Heavenly Experiences"... (GF biting ear and reading this... :-( )

PS: Your post is spammish. Please improve.

[salamangkero]

FeedBacker, on Nov 1 2007, 02:23 AM, said:

Well I had been saving my virginity forever avoiding sex at all cost and I finally found a guy that I really liked so I gave myself to him not only did I lose my virginity but I got pregnant and contracted HIV..... true story.... I know

My heart reaches out to you. Of all the people in the world, I have a soft spot in my (black) heart for victims of sexually-transmitted HIV. Well, after what you just posted, things that happened in my life seemed a whole lot more trivial now...

nol, on Nov 6 2007, 06:12 AM, said:

The worst feeling to me, wasn't being shot, but more watching your best friend get shot in the back of the head and knowing that you could have done something to help him after he was there for you your whole life. Thats the worst experience I've had. You know sure, you can say it about you that you wouldn't care if somebody got shot and bled until he died or shot in the heart and died, but it really hurts to actually know the person. To actually acknowledge that hes gone and no more memories with him can be made, and then actually knowing who killed him is even worse because you know you want to get back at him, but then when you think about it for a minute or so you realize what will it do.

Uhm, no. I'm happy for myself that I haven't experienced this yet. Although I do tend to dream about my best friend getting killed whenever I've had a bit too much to drink. I'd wake up crying and looking forward to hearing his voice, getting an IM from him or seeing him in person, anything to make sure he's alright. Well, I know I seemed like a total lunatic every time I did that.

nol, on Nov 6 2007, 06:12 AM, said:

I hear people tell me, you'll find another friend like him, but its not true, you'll never find that friend that stuck with you from kindergarten, or in my case since we were about 4. Those memories don't leave you, their the type of thing that you never forget that day, its like 9/11. Most people know exactly what they were doing that day, exactly, and where they were when they found out. I remember it just like it happened today, and even now, i turn back in my seat sometimes and say hey jorden look at that, or something like that and then it hits me, hes not there anymore.

For what it's worth, and coming from a total stranger, I'm quite sorry for your loss. My heart reaches out to you too. Yes, some insensitive people do talk about replacing friends (or lovers, when it comes to that) as easily as replenishing one's wardrobe. "You'll find someone like him," or, "There are a lot of fishes in the ocean," unaware that they are unconsciously insulting the memories of the dear departed.

FiReStOrM, on Feb 17 2005, 03:34 AM, said:

...mine was when i was in college , i had badly failed my exams .. with complete failure everywhere...

Oh god, the memories...

I've had failures in college, quite inexcusable ones at that. I lacked fortitude and the will to resist... uh, distractions. As a result of my own weaknesses, I have failed in some subjects, which, ultimately, led to my taking an extra year in college. I suppose I'd also consider this the worst experience I've had in my life. It was really a depressing time of anxiety and paranoia; questions popped into my mind like, "$#!+, what happens to me now?" or, "How am I gonna break the news to my parents?" or, "If I get expelled, what other courses can I take?" or, "If I run away from home, where can I go?"

It was also the only time I've attempted suicide. Fortunately (or unfortunately, back then) some pharmaceutical company botched its job and I just fell ill. I remember holding acrimonious sentiments for my daily glass of milk and multivitamins for foiling my planned escape. Still, for now, I guess it opened my eyes that, perhaps, things aren't quite so bad; that maybe, just maybe, I survived to fulfill some purpose in life.

Uh, no. I still haven't found my purpose but I do look at life quite differently now. With your posts about contracting HIV, having best friends killed or getting molested by people you trust, I feel as though there are a lot of things I should be thankful for.

Thank you, I guess, for sharing your worst experiences. I'm not happy because everyone else is in misery, just to be clear; I'm just grateful that I'm comparatively okay and that I'm seeing a brighter side to my life right now. Again, thank you guys

[ausbus]

Mines very Embarrassing:

I was cleaning the pool (scooping leaves out and putting some Chlorine in) when my grandma had nearly the whole family over for a lunch to celebrate my cousins birthday. I was in the pool yard cleaning away when I hear some welcoming words"Coming for some cake". I put the scooper away and run to the gate. I tripped on a brick and fell into the pool in front of 30 odd people. I got out of the pool in shame (very wet as well).

Cheers,
ausbus

[iGuest]

My worst life experience had to be a couple years ago. And then I started actually believing what people said about not going out at night. And ever since that, I have not snuck out ONCE. I was kidnapped, not kidnapped like ropes and tape, like I knew who the people were, and they were completely drunk. They ended up pulling me into the car, my friend ran away, left me there. And you can pretty much guess what happend from there, 3 guys, drunk, a car, yeah.

Ive been through alot, pregnancy, rape, abuse, the whole nine yards. And the thing I hate the most, is when people say that they've had a bad experience, and in real life, I would have rather been through that. Because people don't understand what can actually happen, they don't understand what teenagers, and others, go through EVERYDAY of their life, and yet your gonna tell some lame ass story about you getting laughed at for running the middle of a feild to talk to an ex girlfriend, thats great, thats your ****ing mistake now isnt it.

-reply by kika

[minimcmonkey]

When that fly landed in my cider!
No, probably finding out that i had a large tumor onmy arm, then after having it removed, finding that i have keyloid scaring, which means the scar is pnk,enflamed,and grows.....

Not sure really, i think ive been fairly lucky...

*touch wood*

[iGuest]

I canWhat's The Worst Experience You Had In Your Life?First, my family didn't like me except for my half sister. I lived in a haunted house with bad plumbing, feces dripping from the ceiling. My dad didn't want to move out. I was the ugliest girl in elementary school and I was a mute. If my sister messed up my dad would beat me for it. My brother would show off how tough he was when he was a teen, eat my food making me starve, break anything I owned, compare himself to me, boast about beating little kids, spit on me, beat me on a daily basis(kids at school would pick on me for being covered with bruises), call me homo just like daddy, call me a loser, said I wasn't his real sister, called me ugly like my parents did. My 9th birthday, my dad said he wasn't my dad, his reason for hating me. At age 10, I was still the ugly girl in school and my brother was gone, I still got picked on for my bruises. People treated me like **** because I looked like a grown girl at 10. By that time my dad would force me outside at night time letting misquitos bite me. I was the dirty girl in class that got picked on every day and my dad supported it including my sister. They made fun of me with others. In middle school I got picked on for being ugly and not being Baptist like everyone else. Highschool, I was the girl with long hair, ragedy clothing, big krooked teeth, and a sad face. I always had 1 eye covered because my father punched that eye when I was 8. My sister kept hitting me, so I hit her back and my dad tried to take my eye out. People at school thought I did it for style, but then they caught on when I didn't sway it like others. African students at school would attack me for my skin color at 14. I became more aggressive at 15. When an African person ever talked about other races badly, I broke their stuff. I didn't dress like the other kids at school anymore, I was a freak. I always looked like a school bully, so everyone judged me. I fell in love with someone and never got to be around her at all,3 years I liked her. Someone felt sorry for me because I never had food, so $10 was given to me. Age 16, I stopped looking like a rag. First time, my dad bought me a hoodie. Because I had a bruised eye, parts of it were scraped out. I wasn't allowed to tell anyone, which I ended up doing. My brother's wife called me spoiled brat for doing that and I didn't know her very well. My brother came back from war and acted the same. My parents let him do whatever to me because he went to war. Everyone was better than me. I was always suicidal. I hated everyone in my family. Some days my dad would beat me if he thought I was talking to him, he ran to his room everyday and shut the door. Age 17, my parents were afraid of me, I would urinate on everything and break stuff. Friends I had good memories with were gone.

[y4nzi]

Compared to some of you guys my 'worst' experience doesn't sound too bad after all but I'll post it here anyway
Probably about 4 years ago my parents and I were driving on a holiday up the coast one weekend to our holiday home when this massive truck for some reason swerved into our on the freeway and took our car out. We were't seriously injured or anything, my parents had a few cuts and bruises and i broke my arm (all easily fixed at the hospital) but it was just SO extremely scary.
Especially since I was in the passenger seat and I just saw this massive shadow of the truck suddenly get closer and closer until it just HIT and went BAM.
We spun out and luckily none of the cars behind us hit us (or it could have ended really badly).
I think the physical injuries healed the quickest because I had nightmares about it for ages afterwards.
Thankfully now I can talk about it without too much trouble. Time is a great healer