29 replies to this topic

[Dawid]

I agree with the statement "there are two sides to every story". In the case of relationships it's a very complicated story...

[funny]

if that is a ture love is good
my heart also hurt by a girl before

[rvovk]

Feminism or not, if guy and girl can't get along, everything is doomed then. If real love is in the game, then I guess there is no reason to play silly games of Conquer and Divide.
If you don't feel OK in relationship, U should go your own path. I can't understand people who are wanting to be in non-loving relationships and then blaming their partner for being so cold. It is your body, your mind, your choice.

[iwuvcookies]

not evey girl is bad. You just have to know the right ones. Don't get the golddiggers and stay away from *BLEEP*y girls. I don't they are just weird. You can never figure them out because they constanly change like changing clothes each day. There like naturally bipolar or something. Lol

[switch]

a wise man once said that there are four things needed for a fulfilling relationship

-->trust
-->respect
-->understanding
-->love

i also think that it's wise to get to know a girl well before you start dating her.

also, if a girl is playing hard to get, she's probably not worth your time.

[psychiccyberfreak]

your not the only one, I got dumped by one before I could even know her. I think she's playing hard to get, but I don't know. I wish I could just read their minds, how scary it might be.

[Kirralouise]

im with Fabian on dis one..
i do the "i like you heaps and heaps but im too scared to say it coz i no you will reject me" thing alot.. im actually doing it now to a guy, but i KNOW he dont like me so hey.
normally a chick is dominerring and mean coz shes scared and insecure. if not then shes a cow.
how do i tell the guy i like i like him??

[spawn_syxx9]

Girls do not mean to be mean at times neither do guys mean to be that way to girls. It is all perspective. Unless they are really trying to and purposely are out there to be evil and that way. it just happens man.

It doesn't help I konw, but just realize that everyone is the same. Some of us do more nice things than others, and some people do meaner things but you can't just generalize and make blank statements. Even if you are in the darkest deepest mood ever. Try to just say, hey look at what happened, I'll try not to have it happen to me again. Just gain knowledge, remember the good (even if very VERY few) times you had with the girl and move on man. ^^ you'll feel lots better.

Read my livejournal, you'll see I really do understand where you are coming from.

[Keyra]

You guys seem to just be going after the wrong type of girls.

[Tsukimoon]

Donegal, on Aug 7 2004, 11:03 PM, said:

Why are they so unconsiously mean to guys?
They break my heart too many times for it to be good......

It depends on what you did and what the girl(s) did. There are many actions that a guy can make to make a girl feel angry or uncomfortable. For example, a guy may whistle at a girl instead of telling her she's beautiful. Making a whistling noise is like calling a dog - it's disrespectful.

Then you may also have said "yes" at a time when a girl wanted you to say "no." Like when she asks if her clothing makes her look fat.

Perhaps you could elaborate on the event that made you post this?